ShockTheGrizzly

a family can be a mom, three daughters, and a congregation of black-cloaked faceless figures.

i lost the ask but someone was wondering how the triplets were doing. Mary, Maria, and Marie are doing fine. their mom, Nevaeh grows more and more thankful that she has the figure’s help as the triplets get older. lord knows their father isn’t around. if they’d stop calling her Dark Mistress and occasionally hissing in unison at the night sky when she’s trying to put the girls to bed life would be perfect.

here they are enjoying the hot spring weather with a beach trip! its the end of the day and everyone is pretty tired but Maria wanted one last ice cream from the shop on the boardwalk before they left. usually mom would say no since they haven’t had dinner yet but she’s been good and it was free.

all ice cream is always free for them.

Pastel Goth Cross Stitch Patterns from NightSpiritStudio

an outfit design I made for Harley a few months ago! It was inspired by her BOP design and street fashion shit I liked lol

Not one but TWO new Gorillaz albums leaked 

One of them is called It’s Not Rael and features Cee-Lo Green, Del the Funky Homosapian, SpaceMonkeyz and MORE!!

The other one is a TWO disc album called Plastic Demon Beach Days and it features Kano, Del the Funky Homosapian, Vince Staples, Massive Attack and MUCH MUCH MORE!!!!!

Creepy Glowing Doll Head

A doll was decapitated today, it’s eyes gouged out making it beautiful. It’s now up to you to set it aflame as a tea-light or votive candle holder.

Here are some cool features:

• Eyes will glow when used as a candle holder. • May “bleed” or “cry” wax tears if using a real candle

BDSM is so much more than just whips and chains. What we do is so much more than just sex. 

What we do is an art. It’s about strict discipline, constant and consistent practice, it’s about learning, patience, honesty, trust, and love. 

BDSM does not just ‘happen’. You will never wake up one day to a rich man who will dominate you just the way you want, when you want.

BDSM takes an abundance of practice, and even the most knowledgeable and experienced members understand that they still make mistakes.

BDSM takes even more patience. Mistakes WILL happen in scenes - there will be all kinds of mistakes, ranging from small to big. And you’ll learn from them this way, and better learn to adjust and learn how to avoid the mistake next time.

Nobody wakes up one day knowing how to fully dominate someone. Nobody wakes up one morning knowing just how to please their Dominant and how to fully submit themselves to someone. 

BDSM is a lifestyle. It’s something not to be taken lightly, and the 24/7 participants have to work so very hard to keep their relationship not only alive, but thriving - they are constantly working on themselves, always trying to get better at serving or dominating.

It’s exhausting. It’s not always fun, it’s not always something you’re going to want to do. You’ll lose motivation, you’ll want to give up some days. But BDSM is so much more than just pleasure - it’s about self-discipline, whether you’re submissive or dominant, you HAVE to have self-discipline. 

Not everyone is naturally dominant or submissive. And it takes a lot of experience and practice to learn how to behave, react, and follow through with actions. 

Rushing into BDSM is the worst mistake you could ever make. Having too high of expectations can lead to severe disappointment - you cannot expect your partner to grab the whip and know what to do with it with little to no practice. You cannot expect your partner to be able to submit whenever you decide you want it when you’re just beginning your journey. Expecting your submissive to be able to fall into a routine and follow and remember several rules you lay out in the first couple weeks of the journey is naive - just as expecting your partner to be able to dominate you in the exact way you need and desire the first couple weeks is naive. 

BDSM is a journey - don’t rush or you run the potential of completely ruining your relationship. Start off slow, give one rule at a time and slowly build it up, practice with each other and by yourselves. Put the same effort in the journey as one another - don’t let one drag the other.