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hii i'm jasper/maxie ☆ 23 y/o genderfluid wizard (he/fae) ☆ my url is usually vainvex, i'm changing back after pride month!

vainvex -> gayboybleedgood

i'm a cartoonist "working on" a comic @alchemy4dummies! (still in early production/planning phase)

more examples of my art can be found @vaingloriousvex (my general art blog) and @goldenrobotgondoliers (podcast/book fanblog). my commissions are currently closed as i rework my prices; if you'd like to support a disabled trans artist in the meantime, you can donate to my ko-fi <3

i am not able to donate to survival campaigns because i make very little money, but i encourage everyone to check the replies of this post and donate to a palestinian family in need if you are able to 💜

[ID: Paul Williams in the movie Phantom of the Paradise. hot pink subtitles read, "Get this fag out of here." END ID]

vainvex

UPDATED PINNED!! ♡

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butchdemiurge

its awesome how many tme trans people have completely and utterly convinced themselves that due to them getting afab and having marginalized identities aside that they actually don’t need to do any research or read any theory or engage in any self critique or meaningfully question any of their thought patterns or kneejerk responses or

deepfrieddeltarunememes

#deltarune spoilers

green-is-gay

i dont WANT pride months to be over,

on the other hand...

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lohboh

Happy July 1st

boccher

out trans people like to try to convince closeted/repressed trans people who are in a position to transition, to transition as soon as possible, by saying "i badly regret not starting earlier". i don't think it's a very effective argument on its own. most closeted/repressed trans people have heard the same thing numerous times, they're deathly aware of it, they're already wracked with the regret of not transitioning today, every single day. simply telling them that the regret never leaves you doesn't have any convincing power. it might only make them feel even more hopeless or guilty. to draw from my honest personal experience, i would instead tell them:

"eventually—maybe slowly, and not always all the time, but surely—you'll notice that the regret of not starting earlier is drowned out by the joy and contentness of finally feeling truer to yourself. you won't have to live stuck permanently ruminating on past what-could-have-beens anymore, you'll be able to live in the present as yourself."

wanderingcoasties

“The LEGO Movie was my favorite movie of 2014, but it strikes me that the main character was male, because I feel like in our current culture, he HAD to be. The whole point of Emmett is that he’s the most boring average person in the world. It’s impossible to imagine a female character playing that role, because according to our pop culture, if she’s female she’s already SOMEthing, because she’s not male. The baseline is male. The average person is male. You can see this all over but it’s weirdly prevalent in children’s entertainment. Why are almost all of the muppets dudes, except for Miss Piggy, who’s a parody of femininity? Why do all of the Despicable Me minions, genderless blobs, have boy names? I love the story (which I read on Wikipedia) that when the director of The Brave Little Toaster cast a woman to play the toaster, one of the guys on the crew was so mad he stormed out of the room. Because he thought the toaster was a man. A TOASTER. The character is a toaster. I try to think about that when writing new characters— is there anything inherently gendered about what this character is doing? Or is it a toaster?”

— Bojack Horseman creator Raphael Bob-Waksberg commenting on how weird gendered defaults in entertainment are, and why we should think twice about them. Excerpted from this longer original post. (via 360degreesasthecrowflies)

killer8

googling "lady from the cure" to make a character comparison only to find out there's no lady in the cure and i was thinking of robert smith

barbarajreadytoplay

Listening to the radio while they report on the SCOTUS ruling yesterday that states can ban specifically trans girls and women from girls/womens sports programs. The people they interview: a trans boy with his cis mother and a trans man. The trans man says one of the things that hampers progress is "no one talks to us." Idk man the radio station didn't talk to any trans women, they talked to you, a trans man. Seems like they are pretty willing to talk to you and not the people this ruling actually directly affects.

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liebelesbe

june is over... goodbye pride month, hello disability pride month!!

liebelesbe

let's all be disabled this month... together 🤝

liebelesbe

if you're not disabled yet: no need to worry! i can help. come closer.

crabussy

if I had even slightly less self control I would reblog the "tumblr is a nightmare for people with ocd" post 500 times a day but I think we all know this already. hoooooooooooooooooly shit

tlirsgender

One of my things that piss people off is that I simply don't let them interrupt me like I'll just keep talking. Uh men especially hate this lol you should try it sometime. Next time you're mid sentence and somebody's trying to cut you off feel free to continue talking just steamroll over them it's fun. Lately it's not even a conscious decision for me I'll realize like after the fact "ohhh I did that thing again" cause I'll finish my sentence and the man in question will just sit there really quiet for a few seconds processing what just happened. I think it kind of confuses them

tlirsgender

Every time I Don't let a man push me around I'm met with varying degrees of bafflement/outrage like it didn't occur to them that I could do that. They kind of float through life without thinking about other people. They're like jellyfish smacking into a glass wall

#i need to start doing this to my stepdad

okay back to my usual url yaaaay

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zmpl

before we start posting that july is gay wrath month let’s consider that july is disability pride month first and foremost. the “be gay do crimes” memes can wait

zmpl

before this post breaches containment and people start going “why not both hehehe” i want you to seriously consider the very long history of disabled people’s existence being pushed aside and/or seen as secondary. i promise you it’s not going to hurt to hold onto the memes and give disabled people space for visibility and celebration.

i say this as a disabled trans person whose trans identity is made front-and-center to the (mainly cis) people who know i’m trans but my identity as a disabled person is brushed off by the very same people.

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mousegirlheart

steven universe discourse was so funny.

yes, this 14 year old child should execute these three dictators. even though with them kept alive, they literally have the power to resurrect everyone they've killed. ignore that. make the traumatized little boy kill them in cold blood. fuck im good at watching childrens cartoons.

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