landscaping my mind

i mean this from the bottom of my heart: no one is impressed by your loud ass car. actually we talked about it and we all want you dead.

actually liking your friends is so embarrassing but so necessary. like im really over here smiling and laughing at texts. on a discord call while we sit in silence doing our own things. talking for literal hours and not even realizing. platonically head-over-heels.

“Reminder that aspecs can still date and love their friends and family” and themselves. And their hobbies, and their passion in life, and the media they consume and their pets and places they like to go and food and drinks they like and in fact they don’t have to subscribe to the idea of “love” at all. You don’t have to date or have friends or family to be a person. You don’t have to fit into what society wants your life to be like to not be a robot. When I complain about aphobes implying that people who don’t date are machines, I’m not just complaining that they devalue platonic or familial love. They’re devaluing the idea of being your own person and thats a type of aphobia people don’t talk about enough. Aspecs can do whatever they want forever and that includes everything.

EXACTLY!!! APL AND AFAM PPL EXIST AND LOVE SHOULD BE COMPLETELY DECENTERED FROM EVERYTHING EVEN THE “well what about self love” (self love is bs, self neutrality / self just keeping going even tho u don’t like urself too much is what we should advocate) GET RID OF LOVE FROM THE REQUIREMENTS TO BE HUMAN

various people about trans men: I hate you. because i hate men of course. there is a heavy overarching implication in my behavior that I would not treat you with this level of cruelty and scrutiny if you were a cis woman, but shouldn't you feel so validated right now? shouldn't you feel validated that I wouldn't treat you like shit if you hadn't transitioned? shouldn't you feel validated that I'm treating you like shit explicitly because of your identity?

platonic love is sharing wireless earbuds and listening to our favorite songs together

i dislike people who call themselves misandrists so much. i understand why they exist, and i understand a lot of them have been hurt very badly by (usually only) [probably peri]cis men. i am very upset that society has hurt them!! or anyone!! but even still, no matter how badly i was hurt by somebody, i could never understand hating the entirety of a group they happen to belong to. and not even in a subconscious way, no, they're always so proud of it!! i could even be lenient if it was just subconscious and they weren't so proud of it, but no! it's just all so illogical. bleughhhhah sighhhhhhhhhhhhh