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Every. Fucking. Night.

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I want to be disgusting I want scars all over my body I want to bleed through every pore I want my skin to rip and tear and gush blood why does it have to be on the inside? I want to see how I feel
my heart aches constantly, and itâs always for you.

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it's more of a pussy out look
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Try putting something else you are interested in on your calendar that makes you want to look at it everyday. Like moon phases and planet/constellation sightings if you like astronomy. keep yourself updated on your calendar events at the same time :D
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Hi! I'm 16 and I plan to move out of my mothers house as soon as possible. I'm working on saving up $1,000 for an emergency fund right now, but what else should I do to prepare before I move? Obviously I still have a few years, but I'd like to have all my things in order before it's time. Thanks!
20 Things to Do Before Moving Out of Your Parentâs House
1. File as independent on your taxes. Weâre a while away from tax season, but remember to file as independent on your taxes. This means that your parents can no longer claim you as a dependent and will no longer receive a tax break from the government for housing you. What it means for you, is that you will no longer be considered part of their tax bracket. This means youâll have a better chance at applying for financial aid, health insurance, car insurance, etc.
2. Important Documents. Get as many of your important documents (social security card, birth certificate, tax forms, etc) as possible while youâre still living with your parents. You will need this information when you move out, so find a secure place to store them.
3. Learn to cook. Obviously, cooking skills are not going to come overnight! Checkout some cook books, online recipes, or even watch a couple episodes of Chopped. The more fast, cheap, and easy meals that youâre able to prepare before you move out- the better. Hereâs my Cooking 101 post.
4. College. If you are going to college or planning to go to college, talk to financial aid about becoming an âindependent studentâ. If the school classifies you as independent, financial aid will pay for a greater portion of your education. Also please donât have your parentâs call the school on your behalf, start taking initiative and making these calls yourself. As someone who worked in a college call center for four years, a good 80% of the phone calls I got were from parents, and legally a college canât tell them anything.
5. Accumulate furniture. Check out thrift stores, Dollar stores, and especially yard sales. Buying all of your furniture at once can be expensive and stressful, but accumulating a few pieces over time (space permitting) can be a more effective way.
6. Doctorâs appointments. Start making your own doctorâs appointments! I love this script by @spectrumsuperhero thatâs applicable to all of your doctorâs appointment needs.
7. Start building credit. At 16, youâre probably too young to apply for an actual credit card, but having some credit before you move out will help you loads in the long run. As you might be aware, some landlords ask that their tenants have a credit score before renting to them. Donât be discouraged! Itâs just something to think about.
8. First Aid. Learn some basic First Aid. Iâm going to toot my horn and link my post because I sat through literally six hours to get certified in this stuff, and if I do say so myself, my post is rather thorough.Â
9. Learn to clean. Learn some basic cleaning skills- how to wash dishes, how to vacuum, what sprays clean what. These may seem like simplistic things, but many people grow up not having to do household chores. I guarantee you that not every apartment you live in will have a dishwasher, so learn some dish skills now! Learn to clean.
10. Go Shopping. Make a shopping list and go shopping at your local supermarket or grocery store. Crowded stores can sometimes be unnerving, remember the more practice you get at it, the more at ease youâll be.Â
11. Learn to wash clothes. Doing laundry is something that I never did while living in my parentâs house, and the first few times doing it on my own turned out⌠interestingly. Get your laundry skills in tip-top shape!
12. Get transportation. Get yourself a mode of transportation that does not require your parents. Biking, walking, and using public transportation are all ways that you can get where you need to be. Get as familiar with public transportation around your city as much as possible.Â
13. Separate bank account. Still sharing a linked bank account with your parents? Get yourself a bank account that they donât have access to. One of the first steps towards moving out and âAdultingâ is being able to take care of your money.Â
14. Build your resume. Keep working on and updating your resume, even if you already have a job. You never know when youâll need to find another one, and you donât want to hastily throw together your resume with little notice.
15. References. Similarly, get yourself a list of professional references. These references can be teachers, guidance counselors, family friends, etc. References are useful for job applications, housing applications, and networking. Always ask before putting someoneâs name down as a reference.
16. Health insurance. Start learning about what health insurance coverage you currently have- how expensive it is, how itâs paid, how long it lasts, etc. Find out if you will be able to stay on this insurance after moving out of your parentâs house.Â
17. Buy a First Aid Kit. A First Aid Kit is a must have for whatever apartment, room, or house is your next home! Spend $20 and buy a decent sized one that includes things like cold compresses, burn creams, and gauze.
18. Buy a Bed. The average person sleeps around 229,961 hours in their lifetime. Thatâs a lot of time in bed! Buy yourself a comfortable mattress (you should replace your mattress every 8-10 years), luxurious sheets and/or a memory foam pillow. Nice beds can be expensive, so start saving up for one now.
19. Learn basic repair. Get yourself a toolbox and learn some basic repair. You can find extensive articles online about everything from unclogging a drain, to tightening screws, and using caulk. Get familiar with these tools now, because you never know what type of landlord youâll end up with. They could come promptly when requested to do repairs, or they might not.
20. Learn how to write a check. Okay but seriously- this is important. Do not let me catch you moving out of your parentâs house without knowing how to write a check. Here is @howtogrowthefuckupâs two cents.
SCRIPT: How to make a doctorâs appointment
Hereâs something quick for you, because this is something I just had to do myself â itâs my script for making a doctorâs appointment. I hate the doctors and I hate making appointments, but I can help to make it very quick and painless for you.
Before you even touch the phone, youâre gonna need a few details. Grab a notebook and pen and your calendar (app) of choice and get them in front of you. The receptionist might ask you to confirm your identity by asking you for your address or date of birth. Make sure that you have both on hand. Yes, I would recommend you write down your date of birth and put it in front of you â you have no idea how often someoneâs asked me for it and my brain just blanked out, like Iâd never been born at all.
If youâre anxious, take some deep breaths. Virgil the Vigilant from Thomas Sanderâs videos has a great technique: breath in for four seconds, hold for seven, breathe out for eight. Then, dial the doctorâs office and wait for the line to pick up. Depending on the quality of your doctorâs office and the demand, you might be put in the queue for a while.Â
When the receptionist answers the phone, start by saying: âHello, my name is [INSERT NAME] and Iâd like to make an appointment.â
If you need or want a specific doctor, add: âIâd like to make it with Dr. [INSERT NAME].â If not, donât bother with this step. If the receptionist asks, just reply with âAny doctor is fine.â
You can also order blood tests on the phone the same way if a hospital or other service requests it â or, if youâre like me, if you need to take a regular or semi-regular test for monitoring purposes. Instead of saying you need a specific doctor, say: âIâd like a nurseâs appointment to take a blood test for [INSERT INSTITUTION/REASON HERE].â
The receptionist will then give you a date and time. Check then and there with your calendar (app) that you have free time to attend the appointment. If not, say: âI canât make that time and date, is there any other time or date available?â
Repeat until you have a time that works for you. When youâve settled on a date and time, write that thing down or put it on your calendar (app) so you wonât forget it. Then say: âThat timeâs fine, thank you.â
Make sure you say thank you, then hang up. Congratulations! You just made a doctorâs appointment.Â
After difficult things, I like to reward myself for taking a leap of faith and having some courage. Itâs a good habit to build and can take the sting out of doing something unpleasant. My chosen reward is usually an iced coffee from Starbucks or a milkshake, but feel free to choose something different.
learngeo replied to your post: SCRIPT: How to make a doctorâs appointment
Additional tip: always make sure to repeat date and time when confirming. Say something along the lines of â okay, [insert time and date] is fineâ. That way you can avoid any possible misunderstandings or mistakes on either side.
Iâm gonna add this to the guide, thatâs a really good point! Thank you
hi!! you might already have a post about this so if you do pls just link me to it, but what are the things a person would want to pack separately for the first night or first few nights in a new apartment? thx so much đ
First Night In A New Apartment Checklist
Cleaning:
Paper towels
Cleaning supplies
Bleach cleaning wipesÂ
Plastic gloves
Trash bags
Sponges
Vacuum
Mop
ScissorsÂ
Eating:
Disposal eating utensils and/or plates
Water/other beveragesÂ
Portable snacks (protein bars, trail mix, bags of chips, etc)
Hygiene:
A couple changes of clothes
Toothbrush/toothpaste
Toilet paper
Bath towel
Bath products
First aid kit
Bedding:
Blankets
Pillow cases
Bed sheets
Pets:
Pet food
Pet treats
Pet bed
Your internet will likely not be set up the first night, so make sure you have something to entertain yourself with!
What my first semester in college taught me
College was interesting, draining and challenging. I learned a lot and I hope this helps you. If you want me to elaborate on a subject please let me know.
1. SEEK HELP WHEN YOU NEED IT. There are a lot of people that are here to help you, guide you and support you. You are not alone, we are here for you. Learn to seek the help you need because it can come in handy when shit gets bad.
2. NOT EVERYONE IS YOUR FRIEND. Youâll meet a lot of people in school and youâll probably hang out with them and that is cool.It is important to choose who you hang out wisely, they can make or break you.Â
3. GET INVOLVED AT SCHOOL. College is not only about studying, it is also about building yourself, get involved, build clubs, create events, write for the newspaper, get creative, volunteer. You can even work at school if you want.
4. SAVE YOUR MONEY. It is very tempting to go out with new friends and spend and consume, it is okay once in a while but PLEASE SAVE YOUR COINS. It will come in handy when you need it the most and you never know what can happen. Create a separate savings account from your checking account. Learn to manage your money!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
5. YOUR SAFETY IS IMPORTANT. Protect yourself mentally, physically and spiritually! My one mistake was not to protect my safety. It is highly you let people know what they are doing is making you uncomfortable, you are allowed to say no if a partner wants more but you donât, you are allowed to cut people off if they are not making you feel safe. If people are influencing you in a bad way, cut them off before you get yourself in some deep shit. College can change people for the better or worst, your choices are the one that determine which path you are leading yourself on. Donât allow anyone to peer pressure you into something you do not want to do.
6. GET YOUR PRIORITIES IN CHECK. Make sure you know where you are heading, at least have an idea. Donât let yourself get caught up with the amazing things college has. If you know you have an essay due tomorrow donât spend the night partying. Make small attainable goals each week and follow them through. Â
7. BE ABLE TO CORRECTLY MANAGE YOUR TIME. Time is precious, you have a lot on your hands. Utilize it correctly. Create a simple routine you are able to follow everyday. GET YOUR FUCKING 8 HOURS OF SLEEP, it changes everything I swear.Â
8. CREATE A SELF-CARE ROUTINE FOR EMERGENCIES. Youâll have horrible days and that is not preventable, the good thing is that you get to help yourself deal with them. I usually turn off my phone, go home earlier then usual, take a bath, cry if I need to, eat a full meal, sulk on my bed, listen to music, isolate myself, write, draw, dance or do nothing and go to bed earlier. I allow myself 24 hours of sadness and then I tried to move on by talking to my therapist about or anyone who is able to listen. Sometimes we just want to be heard and thatâs all we need.Â
9. YOU ARE ENOUGH. Fuck anyone who tells you that you need to change a part of yourself to carter to them. You are enough, what you wear is enough, my college is in a WEALTHY neighborhood in Montreal and everyone wears the best things and have the best things while I donât. It bothered me for a bit because I wanted to fit in. But I realized that I am alright the way I am. People do not care honestly, you can come in pjs at school and nobody will mind.
10. IT IS GOING TO BE OKAY. I suffer from depression, everyday feels like shit to me but it is going to be okay. Life is not a problem to solve, love. It is an experience to be enjoyed. We will be alright, it is just a matter of time, seek help, it is there for you. I know it is draining, I know we just want to give up but we have made it here for a reason because we are capable. Be safe, you are loved!
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I have exactly one (1) lifehack for every adult thing and that is âadmit your ignorance to customer service peopleâ
no, seriously! I know how nothing in adult life works, but I have learned it by calling up the customer service division of whatever agency I am having a problem with and then just asking about whatever the problem is, emphasizing my complete lack of knowledge about the thing.
my actual literal script for these interactions:Â âHi, my name is [name]. This is my problem: [problem]. I donât know how [adult thing] works. could you explain how [adult thing] works?â it fucking works every time.
me:Â I keep getting conflicting information as to whether my therapist is covered by my health insurance. I donât know anything about health insurance, so this is very confusing to me. could you explain why this might be happening? health insurance customer service:Â itâs because your normal health insurance is X company but your mental healthcare is subcontracted out to Y company, and Y covers your therapist but X doesnât. just always bill Y when you go to your therapist and youâll be fine.
me:Â I accidentally put the wrong date to pay my credit card off and Iâm afraid it will post before I get paid. this is my first credit card so I donât know what Iâm doing. could you tell me when it will post? customer service person:Â it will send a message to your bank today, but your bank wonât respond to it until tomorrow when you get paid, so youâre fine. and even if it does bounce, the fee is only $25 and you qualify for a waiver.
me: I went to an urgent care place that said theyâd take my health insurance, but now i have a big bill. I donât know how billing works: can you explain why the amount is so much for such a routine trip? customer service person: itâs because you were out of network at the time. however, since your insurance hasnât covered the cost of care, the urgent care people should refund you for the cost of the services you paid for. me:Â [gets actual check in mail for the $200 I spent on testing my pee]
I would not recommend this method for retail (for the love of god, do not tell a sleazy car dealer that you donât know how cars work), and sure, sometimes you have to speak to the manager or threaten a credit card chargeback or whatever you need to do. but 99% of the time, speaking nicely and admitting to needing help has worked wonders for me, and means I donât have to stew in terror over doing some adult thing Wrong.
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