You can’t deserve a person’s love. You’ll drive yourself crazy thinking like that. They either love you, or they don’t. That doesn’t mean you weren’t good enough for them to love you, because love isn’t something you earn by being good enough. It isn’t something that can be quantified or doled out. Don’t blame yourself for not being loved how you need to, just teach yourself how to look for love where love lives.

This isn’t just about romantic love, or even skewed towards romantic love, although it does apply there too. One of the hardest things I’ve ever had to accept is that my mother simply wasn’t someone who was capable of loving me, and there is no version of me that I could have ever been that would have earned that love. But with acceptance came healing. I was able to love myself more instead of resenting myself for not being more than any one person could be.

Are you listening? Even love for yourself isn’t earned. It is a kindness you give yourself.

you are too good for someone to be unsure about you

Min veninde fortalte, at hun havde grædt til unz unz, fordi hun savner klubben så meget

i know i’m cute but you can remind me

If I’m not the only one getting your attention, I don’t want it

Telling someone that doesn’t take criticism well that they don’t take criticism well is the easiest way to show them that they don’t take criticism well.

er bange for jeg er for meget og er bange for jeg er for lidt