L O V E R❤️‍🔥

One thing I learnt about relationships is that, sooner or later, people is going to disappoint you. And it's not cause of them: they're just people trying, exactly as you and me. It's that at times we tend to see them as perfect (for any reason, especially love of whatever kind), or have very high expectations or put them on a pedestal when they simply are people with their own life, their own problems, their own sensitivity... and if we don't talk about our own needs and expectations, we may even be left down. And grow disappointed. And pretend it's not true. And not talk about it. And ruin it all, possibly (holding grudges/resentment... especially if it happens more than once). What would it be like if it was you the one disappointing someone else? (cause, spoiler alert: no matter how much you try no matter how sensible you are, one day it will happen, even if it's for a good cause as choosing yourself) Wouldn't you like to talk about it, to make things better (when possible)?