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WHEN HARRY MET SALLY (1989) dir. Rob Reiner

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Adore You
When youβre in pain, who would you most like to comfort you?
when you are young,
they assume you know nothing
but I knew you
playing hide-and-seek and
giving me your weekends
I knew you'd linger like a tattoo kiss
I knew you'd haunt all of my what-ifs
and I knew you'd come back to me
you'd come back to me
cardigan by Taylor Swift (folklore) | various works of Ron Hicks | Rory Gilmore & Jess Mariano (Gilmore Girls) | part 2 of my Ron Hicks x OTP x Taylor Swift series
one thing iβve learnt is that u canβt put your life on hold for that perfect idealized future moment. thats just condemning your present self to needless repentance and suffering. get that haircut now β not when youβve lost x amount of weight. go get on that long drive out to the ocean NOW, not when u have that hypothetical daydreamy significant other by your side. you canβt save important life experiences for a self that ultimately doesnβt exist. all you have is you, right now, at this very moment. perfection is a myth anyway, just another perfect word for procrastination. please do not let your life wither away right before your eyes bc u were too busy putting it off
"If we wait until we're ready, we'll be waiting for the rest of our lives." -Lemony Snicket

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Maybe itβs just because Iβm Jewish but I do truly believe that life gets ten times better when you learn to complain cheerfully
I think a part of it is that it lets you acknowledge that something sucks, which is actually really good in a culture that wants us to pretend that everything is fine and weβre soldiering through all the time. Like, no, my grocery bag breaking and spilling all over the floor is not fine. Iβve had a long day and Iβm really upset and on the verge of tears because I canβt handle one more thing and pretending like itβs fine only means breaking down later.
But if you let yourself complain, if you let yourself swear terribly and creatively, and you stare down at the bruised vegetables like theyβve personally disappointed you, and you make yourself smile because this is really just so, so stupid, you feel a little better. Thereβs a power to acknowledging that something sucks and making yourself feel better anyways. Thereβs a power to going βand THEN my bag broke, and itβs likeβseriously? my day was bad enoughβ and doing it with a smile.
You shouldnβt have to pretend things are fine when they arenβt. You shouldnβt have to force yourself to smile through things that make you feel terrible. But if you can make yourself laugh by staring down at some strawberries that have decided to revolt, and give them a lecture on why theyβre just terrible, really, and that makes you smileβthen maybe thatβs a good thing.
Might fuck around and accept the things I cannot change
might go wild and have the courage to change the things i can
Would be funny if I had the wisdom to know the difference
literally who CARES if straight cis men are wearing skirts forΒ βcloutβ!!! I want to live in a world where being gnc is desirable to them rather than one where they make bigoted jokes about it. itβs GOOD that people with the privilege to do so are normalising gender non conformity and i dont give a shit if they have deliberate political intentions or if theyβre just having fun you guys are all so annoying
we could be using the tiktok boys to kickstart a movement around men wearing skirts that would benefit gnc and trans people but you guys want ideological purity before u want results
When I was in middle school, way back in 1994, we had An Incident. A few popular boys dared each other to wear skirts to school on Monday. To, in their own words, βSee what it was like to wear skirts, lol. Why shouldnβt we?β. It wasnβt anything fancy, they just pulled some long hippie skirts over their jeans in the bathroom and giggled their way to class.
I want to go back a bit here. It was 1994. There were no out gay people anywhere near our school. Certainly no trans people. A few celebrities on TV, sure, but mostly in jokes. And not everyone had access to MTV or cable. The internet didnβt exist for us. Only a few kids had ever even heard of Rocky Horror Picture Show, which would be my first brush with gender fuckery that came close to positive rep in the media. Our city and state had a measure on the ballot almost every year since the mid eighties attempting to criminalize even mentioning the word gay. AIDs was still a looming specter over everything. It was dangerous to be seen as gay or gender nonconforming.
So these boys. They werenβt trying to make a statement. They werenβt even making a gay joke. They just thought it wold be silly to wear skirts. They wanted to see what it felt like. They were experimenting. The teachers flipped out. The boys wear marched into the principleβs office, their parents called, they were sent home for the day, a school announcement was made about inappropriate clothing and being lewd in school. Again, long loose skirts over pants. βSkirts arenβt for you. Itβs wrong for boys to wear skirts. Stay in your straight boy boxβ. In response we, the students, responded with βFuck the police!β.
2 Days later about 2/3 of boys showed up in skirts, jewelry, and makeup. No girls wore skirts, makeup, or jewelry. Some girls drew mustaches and wore suits. It began as just a anti-authoritarian response to what we saw as a ridiculous over reaction to boys in skirts, but the more we thought about it the more upset we got. Why couldnβt they wear skirts any time they wanted??? Why shouldnβt they paint their nails??? What if they did it all the time??? Yeah maybe some of them did like other boys, so what??? Maybe some of the girls in school never wanted to wear skirts or makeup, didnβt like their boobs, and/or didnβt like boys??? MAYBE IT WAS ALL BULLSHIT
In about a week a large number of us had become queer advocates without even knowing what that was. And in the face of that many kids, the school didnβt know what to do. Send us all home? We had several days of no free periods allowed, no recess time, lunch was for eating and quiet contemplation. Parents were called and warnings mailed that school dress codes were being updated. Unfortunately for school policy enough parents also thought that enforcing the gender binary was ridiculous that meetings had to be held. And some of the wealthier parents rolled up with lawyers ready to argue that Timmy had every right to wear a long skirt, and you couldnβt suspend Alice because sheβd buzzed her hair on Thursday and started wearing mens suit pants and jackets. So it was dropped mostly. Skirts couldnβt be above the knee, no spaghetti straps, no drawing on your face - regardless of gender. But the air had changed.
Most kids went back to wearing whatever they had before. But, several boys continued painting their nails, grew out their hair, and occasionally wore skirts. Several girls chopped their hair off and wore βboysβ clothing. One person, and this was literally unheard of, asked their friends to stop calling them Bridgett and call them Brandon. And they did. I lost track of most of the students, this town isnβt that small, but I know some of them came out as queer later in life. I canβt say that incident was a turning point for them, but it was for me.
It started as boys being silly. But at least 2 of those initial boys ended up wearing skirts and makeup regularly after that well into high school, and not as a joke. If theyβd been shouted down? If other kids hadnβt said, βYou know what? Good for you!β I hope they still would have been able to come out, but it probably wouldnβt have been as easy.
And yes, it did start as a joke. But the response is what matters here. It wasnβt treated as a joke. It was met with anger. Then acceptance. And it made a positive difference.
So, I see people upset that βstraight cisβ people arenβt wearing clothes correctly andβ¦ Y'all. I just see another instance of some kids playing with ideas and experimenting, pushing the boundaries. And being met with anger. And told to get back in their gender appropriate box.
βWell well well what if they mean it as a joke???β Tell them they look good and should wear skirts more often, if they want to. Tell them that yellow isnβt their color, but theyβd look great in green. Tell them that if they get thigh chaffing to try bike shorts underneath. If you canβt handle that, donβt say anything. Block them and move on. If theyβre assholes, block them and move on. But donβt tell them they canβt wear clothing because they havenβt labeled themselves correctly.
You canβt say you support queer rights and gender nonconformity and then get pissy when people donβt wear pants/skirts in narrow ways you like.
Stop trying to validate yourself by pushing down other people.
(Iβm using pronouns for people that were used when I last knew them, since I have no way of knowing if theyβve changed)
EDIT: I do know this situation is specific. It wouldnβt have happened the same at some of the other schools in town. Families trended more liberal, and the popular kids were mostly wealthier. So, we all had adults saying, βgays arenβt evil but also not encouraged, but you canβt say you donβt encourage themβ. The parental support was mostly of a βdonβt tell my kid what to doβ liberal posturing. Very few of the parents actually supported their kid being queer at the time. Brandon changing their name was a secret. We, the students radicalized ourselves on accident, but no one actually came out until years later. Our supporting each other to wear whatever we wanted, joke or not, was influential in coming out though. (my parents basically asked if I wanted to buy a suit to wear to school, also did I want to form a picket line. I did not, but appreciated the idea. Mom told one of the boys he looked very pretty when he wore a dress to graduation. Which was another Incident, and also very funny because they couldnβt punish him at all by then)
iβm in love w her actually
Nuala Archer, from Whale on the Line: Poems; βRocking,β (For Mary L.)

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i've had enough of being so brave about it i want to start screaming
I THINK LOVE IS SOMETHING / THAT HAPPENS TO OTHER PEOPLE
FEEL GOOD | 1.01 / 2.06
is it meeee??? ? am i the dramaaaa???

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angel baby π
all iβm saying is the le creuset signature dutch oven in fig would make me normaler
she could fix me