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Be kind to yourself. Stop telling yourself that whatever you are struggling with “should” be easy. If something is hard for you, it is hard for you. There are probably Reasons, though those may just be how you are wired. Acknowledge these things. When you finish something hard, be proud! Celebrate a little. And really, just stop saying “should” to yourself about your thoughts and feelings in any context. You feel how you feel. The things in your head are the things in your head. You can’t change either directly through sheer force of will. You can only change what you do. Stop beating yourself up for who and what you are right now–it isn’t productive. Focus on moving forward.

What do we live for, if it is not to make life less difficult for each other?

Please, I want so badly for the good things to happen.

i was making a lot of mistakes and then my archery instructor said:

Hang in there. It is astonishing how short a time it can take for very wonderful things to happen.

Because believing that the dots will connect down the road will give you the confidence to follow your heart even when it leads you off the well worn path.