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I can’t say I can offer any solution or ideas, but I can tell you that you’re not alone. I go through the same thing with my girlfriend, just slightly different questions. I can tell you that I know she loves me and she wants this to work, but we are all new to this and there is a lot of learning involved. Hang in there.

Thanks! It honestly helps a lot knowing I’m not alone. ❤️

So it seems clear that the future of your relationship with her is unclear, but I think it would be good to make sure that you both like how the relationship is working currently. Thinking about the future is good and its good to know where you stand on those things, but its also a guessing game, people can change their minds, life can happen and change everything, you just can’t predict how things will turn out. You can, however, make sure that you are both happy in the relationship that you currently share, and I think that would be a good first step and he’ll ease some of your current tension.

@nachocrabtree wow. Very well said! Thank you. It always helps hearing kind words. It means a lot. And you’re right. We’re happy in the here and now. We can’t predict the unpredictable

I have these fears with one of my partners. I have two male partners, one I live with and one I don’t. They get along well, but I struggle with being a public couple with one of them, and secretive with the other. I don’t know what will happen as time passes and we get more serious. We stopped having sleep over’s due to my partner’s anxiety about the complications (not to say we don’t still share a bed, sometimes). While they get along exceedingly well, I can’t imagine them wanting to share a home. I don’t believe in hierarchical relationships, but living with one partner definitely affects priorities. If I had known I was poly back when we started dating I might not have moved in with him, but now that I live with him I love it so much and couldn’t bring myself to move out unless I had to.

HOW CAN SOMETHING BE THIS CUTE

Oh my what is this magic

SAVING FOR LATER O.O

Dualism!

I need this as a t-shirt as “zoologically improbable and/or terrifying to small children” sums me up.

Finally I know what I want inscribed on my tombstone when I die.

I remember the news article, this is the lion that was removed:

THAT IS FUCKING TERRIFYING

OH MY GOD THAT IS HORRIFIC

hahaha

I’M LAUGHING SO HARD OH MY GOD

I can’t remember the last time I actually laughed this hard at something on tumblr. Oh my shit.

ZOO-LOGICALLY IMPROBABLE DOESNT FUCKING COVER IT

I’ve reblogged this before, but not with the lion attached. OH GOD THAT LION

This reminds me of that meme cat that’s like “how you feel when you’re wearing socks and step in water” that I spent 15 minutes trying to find a picture of on the internet but cannot.