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What interests me most about Darlins is how authentic the sisterhood feels and how it’s clearly built on genuine relationships rather than surface-level connections. During my first info session, one moment that truly stood out to me was a conversation I had with one of the Darlin’s, where she spoke openly and vulnerably about her experience. She shared that her Big in Darlins is also her best friend, and the way she talked about that relationship felt so genuine and unforced. It wasn’t just about being in the same organization, it was about support, trust, and choosing each other. That moment made the idea of sisterhood within Darlins feel real and meaningful rather than just a word.

Being a part of the CAP program and coming from a commuter school it was harder to build deep connections, but now as a sophomore at UT Austin I feel I am at the point in my life where I am truly ready to fully invest in a community. I came to UT initially for the academic opportunities, but now I’m looking for a sisterhood where I can grow personally and socially with women who value authenticity and want to create impactful experiences together. Being a transfer student and being away from my friends and family has pushed me out of my comfort zone, but it has also motivated me to seek out a genuine community of girls who uplift one another. Darlins represents that kind of sisterhood to me – one grounded in authenticity, vulnerability, connection, and shared growth during such an important time in my life.

I would contribute to Darlins through my strong alignment with its service pillar, as service has been a meaningful part of my life long before college. During high school, I would help organize and participate in fundraisers in my community such as Coach to Cure MD, which is inspired by my cousin Jax and other kids who are affected by Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy. These efforts helped raise awareness and money to fund research for a cure. This cause fueled my passion for medicine and giving back to underserved and vulnerable populations as a pre-med student. Being part of Darlins would connect me with a group of women who are also committed to serving the greater Austin community, and I am especially excited for the opportunity to participate in service events such as the food bank events Darlins has done in the past.

Sister hood 4life

The organizations I have been a part of have played a significant role in shaping who I am today. Softball has been a constant in my life, teaching me discipline, resilience, and the importance of teamwork. Beyond playing, I served as an assistant coach for youth and select teams and gave lessons, which showed me the importance of patience, encouragement, and supporting others as they grow. I was also a member of my high school’s spirit organization, Stray Cats, where I supported all sports teams and learned the importance of showing up for others, even when I was not the one on the field. Involvement in the National Honor Society and Student Council further reinforced accountability, leadership, and service, but it was softball, combined with my experience in spirit that most shaped my character by teaching me how discipline and support can uplift a team and build a strong community.

Due to financial reasons I decided to spend my freshman year at UTA instead of starting at UT Austin right away. At the time, it felt like I failed because I didn’t get the traditional freshman experience or the opportunity to build the connections I had pictured for myself. At times, I felt like I was missing out while everyone else was moving forward. However, completing the CAP program taught me resilience and reminded me that setbacks don’t decide where you end up, they just change how you get there. Looking back now as a sophomore at UT, I’m proud of myself for staying committed to my goals, and I’ve learned that what feels like rejection is often redirection, helping me grow, stay ambitious, and develop a deeper appreciation for community.