Cishets Are Ugly Lol

Nonbinary people who are AMAB are allowed to use he/him pronouns and nothing else, by the way. They’re still 100% nonbinary

Nonbinary people who are AMAB are allowed to dress feminine. They’re allowed to dress masculine. 

They’re allowed to start HRT, or choose not to. 

What? do you seriously think that the majority of cishet people are terrible people? You should definitely talk about it to a therapist, it’s not normal. Most cishet people are nice if you are.

“ . As someone that is not only trans and gay but also a POC it’s a completely different culture of acceptance and systematically I’m less likely to receive the proper funds or treatment for the surgery I want along with being alienated from my own communities!! “

Transphobia and Homophobia didn’t stop existing because of recent times.

What? do you seriously think that the majority of cishet people are terrible people? You should definitely talk about it to a therapist, it’s not normal. Most cishet people are nice if you are.

“ . As someone that is not only trans and gay but also a POC it’s a completely different culture of acceptance and systematically I’m less likely to receive the proper funds or treatment for the surgery I want along with being alienated from my own communities!! “

Also why is everyone ignoring the main issue, which is that Sonic somehow imgregnates Pikachu’s ass? Please focus on the real issues.

Dont y'all have 2 notes callout posts to write? Or the saddest tm bio that have 20 links with a kin list?

Are we going to forget minors shouldn’t be here.

That said minors parents are responsible for anything and everything they see on the internet, and not some random dude on tumblr.

Excusing pedophilia and the sexualization of children's media to pwn the aceys

Sonic isn’t a kid, he’s a hedgehog, pikachu isn’t a kid, she/he idek is a pokemon. It’s not porn cause it doesn’t show any genitalia or actual movement of any kind.

my mom is friends with this trans woman, who was really sweet and she was super cool, but then i tried to come out after my mom expressed how much she liked her trans friend and how amazing she is. i told my mom about my crippling chest dysphoria and how much i’d love to be called by he/him pronouns and my preferred name. i told her about how i’ve always felt this way and i’ve known since eighth grade.

well the thing is, her friend is a transmed.

my mom is an uninformed person on trans issues, because she didn’t really care about them until recently. she took resources from her transmed friend and it ruined my life. she went off about how i’m not really trans because i didn’t come out sooner, i have piercings, my hair is always a crazy color, i still like girly things, and my glasses are weird. she kept yelling about how i didn’t have dysphoria before, so i obviously have the wrong definition. she told me if i was trans it would’ve been diagnosed by my therapist already, and it was just a cult bandwagon phase. i was locked away from the outside world for a month.

when my next year of high school rolled around, i was out as trans. my partner provided me with a binder and all was well. i came out to all my peers at the beginning and about halfway through the school year to my teachers. it was quiet, under the table. i told them my mom didn’t know and under our school guidelines, they were not allowed to tell my mom that sort of thing. well, one of my teachers ended up being lgbtphobic and i didn’t know, and announced to the class that she didn’t “agree with the lifestyle” and that “gay marriage isn’t what god wanted.” my mom got an email that day about me being out as trans at school. i wonder who could’ve sent it?

my mom blew up. she was sending me treat after threat because i was a trender, all i did was lie for attention, that i chose to be trans because it was trendy and that real trans people wouldn’t flaunt their transness. of course, she got these resources from her transmed friend. she pulled me out of public school and cut my contact with the outside world for three whole months. i didn’t get back into school until february.

We got super gatekeepy and “you must be THIS GAY to ride this identity” and we complained at length about it being “trendy” and how girls only did it to be “cool” and to get attention.

And so among other things I know one person I love is, for example, only JUST getting to have her FIRST relationship ever with a woman at slightly older than me because this shit got into her head and she didn’t think she was “allowed”.

So watching people turn the same bullshit on even more vulnerable kids?

Transmeds do hurt the community in more ways than one. Did you read the fucking post?

Patton reacts by not reacting at all

In fact he actually seems to be MORE respectful, he uses the right pronouns, refers to them correctly

So one day one of them gets the courage to ask… what changed?

Patton smiles, and says. In the sweetest voice he can

I don’t know how, but everything you said was wrong. Not only that, but you didn’t take care to do any fact-checking whatsoever and immediately jumped to attack op.

 First, this is an AU. AKA, an Alternate Universe, where things can happen differently than canon! Amazing, right? A Headcanon is something that a person believes happens within canon. So, despite your claims, op doesn’t actually believe Patton is a transmed. 

Second, did you even read the url? The blogs name is unsympathetic-patton. A blog dedicated to seeing Patton in a way that you can’t feel sorry for him. He’s supposed to be a terrible person in these ideas - that’s the whole point! This au isn’t talking about canon Patton, it’s talking about what Patton would be like if he was awful. 

 Now, I know you probably didn’t dig even a teensy bit into this blog because you completely disregarded the tags, but op has stated multiple times that if you feel uncomfortable with this, then you should block the tag. They aren’t responsible for your internet experience - you are. The fact that you feel uncomfortable with this does not mean that they should stop making this content. It means that you should block them or the tag and move on. 

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Op: See, that’s responsible.

You: Wow that’s bullshit omg you’re like an anti anti you’re so gross

So this is how they begin their callout. With someone who just cant stand me. Which is valid, but their reasoning is honestly hilarious. I just want to focus on how for proof in a callout about the DANGERS of ungracefulace, you get unsourced and also wrong (anyone who actually reads anything I post ever will see that I dont give a pass for phobic stuff ace people or any people do. I actively call out and argue with shitty inclusionists when I see them) whining from a whole ass 32 year old. So not a string start but lets see what's next.

So again, this doesn't... count as a source of my evil since it diesnt have anything from what I said. But Ill do one better, I actually found said conversation and this is what they were talking about. (For context this is arguing against the whole idea that ace people cant consent to sex because we don't experience sexual attraction)

So first of all I didnt say aces having sex is like lesbians having sex with men at all. I said that an ace person choosing to gave sex with someone counts as consent, and that lesbian sex workers like my aunt are doing so consenually.

Ill definitely give you my wording is bad; when I say "without enjoying it" I'm meaning without being sexually attracted to. And when I said that it doesnt gave to be super enthusiastic I meant that you dont have to be super pumped to have sex for you to want to have sex. But also this is from like 3 years ago and I've gotten way better at wording things (at least in my opinion)

Obviously these are different circumstances, but for clarification in the case of an ace person deciding to have sex with their partner there's nothing wrong with that as long as they arent being manipulated or coerced, just like literally any couple ever. And for sex workers as long as they are in control of their clientelle then I see no problem with that either.

So none of these at ALL have rape culture apologism so thats just a straight up lie. "Recounting possibly triggering opinions to a CSA survivor minor without consent" ????? They literally were the one to start talking to me in replies of an OP I made about consent. This was the only thing I said about it and they told me they didnt want to talk about it anymore I completely dropped it. And oh yeah, Im a CSA survivor too???? And was also a minor at the time???? Y'all are trying to frame me as some type of predator acting like theres some kind of power imbalance I'm preying on when thats literally not the case and its fucked up.

Supporting self identification in minors is apparently a call out offense now according "supporting the labelling of kids as asexual". And general illiteracy is something thats not supported past "this person said simeone they argued with cant read"

But wait, that's not all!!!

The callout actually continues! With this "receipt"

This is in reference to the thing from like 2 days ago, and again... its so much. We start out strong with blaming me for "defending 10 year olds being ace" because I'm not some asshole going to tell someine who isnt 10 and is still ace that they didnt actually learn they were ace wyen they were 10.

Then we slide into full lies, nowhere do I even mention "allo kids" or say that its normal for 9 year olds to want or have sex. I said that puberty starts between 9-13, and I said that after puberty people can be interested in sexual stuff. I also said (in the screenshotted part they have in their callout) that obviously its not good and n that I dont think anyone shluld be doing anything sexual until they are at least 16.

This last thing just straight up doesnt make sense. For one, the discussion doesnt gave anything to do with grooming. Someone said someine else was lying about their personal experiences for why they identified as ace at 10, and my point was that they cant decide that person is a liar because they dont think 10 year olds are doing anything sexual. They shouldn't be, but its entirely possible and does happen so unless they literally were in school with that person theres no basis to say the person is lying. But secondly, they acknowledge that I do address the grooming point but not enough for them??? How is that callout worthy???

And then they end this already really thin callout with this...

terfs said “lesbian not queer” because they aim to kick out anyone who is not a cis lesbian (historically kicking bi women and trans women out of originally joined communities)

terfs said “lesbian not queer” because they are known for seeking to control people

terfs said “lesbian not queer” because filthy mspec women can “sneak their way into the community” with queer

terfs said “lesbian not queer” because the only complicated relationship they see with gender is “dysphoric women” and “predatory men”

Very Smart Tumblr Users say “____ not queer” because… Hmmm… 

IDISLIKECISPEOPLE (also known as Kat, Adelle, and Softcisphobia) claimed to be a trans woman when in reality, she is a cis woman.

First let's get into her transphobia and hatred for cis people

She HATED cis people for no reason

She also hated trans men and truscum

So how do we know she isnt trans?