Transid Alley

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Oppression/Relation Hoarding Disorder, also known as ORHD, is a compulsive MUD characterized by an unstable identity and craving maximum oppression and/or relatability.

It is thought to be caused by trauma in childhood where the child would only be cared for when they were the most hurt, as well as being introduced to the concept of oppression in crucial moments of brain formation.

Risk factors:

Childhood Trauma. Being dismissed with "others have it worse". Strong curiosity. Using Fantasy as an escape mechanism.

Symptoms/Criteria:

-Patient experiences persistent, rapid changes in their identity that are not better explained by plurality or personality disorders.

-Patient wants to be things they are curious about either to be more oppressed OR to be able to understand and relate to it on a deep level.

-Patient hoards labels, particularly collecting those of people they look up to, those of characters, or those they consider oppressed.

-Patient pretends to be these identities and/or transition to them. This lasts for 1 month or longer.

Common Signs:

-Patient gets upset when faced with something they cannot relate to, when faced with the idea that they don't have something they beleived they did, or when being told that another person is more oppressed or harmed than them.

-Patient may have trouble differentiating their true trans and cis identities from the disorder.

-Patient may act stereotypical, attempting to sort their identity changes into functional categories.

-Patient may struggle with empathy or understanding how their actions can harm others.

-Patient may be misdiagnosed with fictitious disorder or HPD due to partaking in attention or care seeking actions. Can be comorbid.

-Patient may frequently talk about transIDs (particularly fluid ones) and reality shifting, but not in the same way the majority would.

-Often comorbid with ATDD.

-Much harder to diagnose in those who don't know of transIDs.

Subtypes: O-ORHD (oppression focused), R-ORHD (relatability/curiosity focused), and M-ORHD (mixed type). If a type cannot be concluded, the patient may be considered U-ORHD (unspecified)

Treatment: There is no treatment for ORHD, but there are steps you can take to manage symptoms.

Management:

-Working through the underlying trauma

-helping those with ORHD find safespaces to roleplay through the hoarded identities and where they can lie about themself without harming others.

-having patience when discussing things the person did wrong

-helping the person organize theur hoard into identities for their roleplays to limit distress.

-Creating alters to hold parts of the hoard or to hold, limit, or nullify symptoms.

-Reassurance that they do not need to have these things to be cared for or be relatable and that they can have symptoms without having a disorder (eg. One can have identity compartmentalization without plurality or DID)

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I made this MUD for myself because I relate heavily to the concept of oppression olympics and other disorders do not describe it well. Almost thought i had hpd but i dont fit much if Any diagnosis criteria. Please do not call it transphobic to transIDs as it is merely a descriptor of my own experience as a person who uses transIDs due to mental issues.

A currently fleur-like stance, made by mixing my views with the idea that someones ability to consent can vary depending on the political and social climate they live in. The following is based on our current climate, but it can and will change over time.

Pro:

-Anything consensual! (Agreed to, Aware, Reversible, Intervenable [if needed], Non-Coerced. N/A to objects)

-Radqueerism

-Youthlib

-Attention Seeking & Lying (as long as it doesn't cause nonconsensual harm)

-Reform of how schools, families, and Healthcare systems work

-Pre-death consent

-MUDs, delusion, and self-diagnosis

-All transIDs and transitioning without nonconsensual acts/harm

-Design of safe procedures to help transID transition & legal/social recognizations of transID-identifiers as theur transIDs

-Cosplaying and roleplaying controversial things

-ALL lgbtqia+ and mogai

-climate advocacy

-making new and/or fictional countries

-Desexualizing the human body

Neutral:

-Currency vs. Trading

-MIK / minor access to kink content

-Nudity

-eye for eye, leg for leg. Punishment, if given, being equal to the crime.

Anti:

-Nonconsensual harm or sexual activity. (This one WILL NOT change)

-Harm, as well as romantic or sexual contact with groups if they lack an ability (whether due to oppression or disability) to express consent, to be aware, to reverse it, to express to others if they are being harmed nonconsensually, or to understand the acts happening. In the current state of the world, this includes bodily animals and children, as well as *some* disabled people.

-prison, at least how it is right now. punitive systems are shown to prevent change and have more recurrence of crime than restorative systems

-AI in the current world. It is too unregulated and is being gone about very wrongly

-TRASH, holocaust deniers, and climate change deniers

-CSEM/CSAM

Do you want to create or even *join* a fun discord server for manifesting transIDs, roleplaying, and finding roleplay partners? If so, DM us at sparkle.system on discord!

It would include:

-channels for role-playing as if you have the IDs

-chat channels

-manifestation channels for non-roleplay manifesting

-Cat bot, the cat distribution bot!

-other fun bots as well as some others as requested.

-channels for looking for DM roleplays*, friends, and partners

-more!

*roleplays would be for those who enjoy things like more personal roleplay, long term roleplay partners, or more violent or sexual topiced roleplay that the server would rather not have.

Specifics:

I made some ideas for prefixes, and shared them.

A member of transid.org was looking for something to call transharmful people who do not 'wish to cause harm'. One of the terms I made was meant to be alternatives to the proposed prefixes which were things such as 'naught'.

i made my alternatives because the proposed ones essentially say that they are not those.

I was then told that what she was looking for was things like MTF and FTM that may be uncomfortable but are explicit.

I don't understand it, and I didnt understand it then either. FTM and MTF show 'hey I was this and now im this', which isnt a problematic view of personal transness. mtf doesnt say a person is not a woman, and ftm does not say a person is not a man. things that directly say things like not or naught in them DO say that.

And idk why we need a prefix anyway. Nonharming transharmful is a simple way to say it.

I'm prolly overreacting though. Before ppl try to use it to like prove im a hypocrite, I feel similarly about the faux- prefix.

I deleted my post because I did not want to stress over th possibility that people might consider me bad if Sakura prefix becomes like... a thing.

And i' loke really emotional rn and am so embarrassed that I just wanna delete tis atp

I'm a lil late to rhe party but I made a bingo :3

Should I redo my intro to try and get more people?

A blankqueer(?) for anyone who finds that their stances, beleifs, and identity are hypocritical, contradictory, or otherwise confusing and complex to where one often must resort to one of two extremes: detailed or vague description.

Edit: It is also gonna be known by paradoxqueer because contraqueer is already a term apparently.

Contraqueer is pro:

-Contradictory identities

-Complex identities

-Unharmful hypocrisy

-Lying in the internet

-holding multiple beleifs at once

-emotionally holding one stance while cognitively beleiving the opposite

Neutral/Up to User:

Anything not mentioned above.

yes this includes things like nonconsensual harm. Due to the nature of this identity, it is not meant to be inherently 'good' or 'bad'.

Sorry if that name for a blankqueer is already taken.

Uhm... its practically fleur but with theoretical different contact stances! <3

Its focus on consent, safety, respect, and gentleness.