why are you here

There's a recurring online tendency to aestheticize consensus itself. The imagined future village is full of emotionally compatible people who enjoy communal gardening, conflict resolution circles, acoustic folk music, mutual aid potlucks, and repairing bicycles together at sunset. Which is nice for the people who genuinely enjoy that lifestyle. But plenty of humans are solitary, prickly, obsessive, urban, nocturnal, sensory-seeking, technologically attached, contrarian, novelty-seeking, private, or just plain difficult. Those people do not evaporate after the revolution. They do not get Left Behind while you are Raptured into the Utopia. They become your neighbors.

To the transfems out there: There is a pervasive issue of misandry in the tumblr transfem community right now. A lot of big transfem blogs are openly making bigoted and sexist comments against men and masculinity. Even blogs that are otherwise very supportive and progressive have shown that they share these beliefs. I need you to know that this is not normal. You do not need to support their sexist beliefs to be accepted as a trans woman. There is another way. There are trans folk out there who don't believe that bullshit. There are trans folk out there actively speaking up against how their behaviour is wrong. You are not alone. Do not let them peer pressure you into becoming a bigot like them. Being trans nowadays is hard enough. It can feel so difficult to find people you can feel safe to be yourself around. It can be easy to quietly let these comments slip by, because you want to feel accepted, or don't want to lose what little community you currently have. But you are not alone. There ARE trans people out there who don't believe in this sexist bigotry. There ARE trans people out there who are truly kind, good people, and we will support you. Speak out, and stand up for what's right. Tell these bigots their behaviour isn't acceptable. It is only through fighting back against bigotry that we can create a better, kinder world for everyone.

It cost me the harm of my brethren. It benefitted me, and all men, to speak up openly against misandry. Transwomen, transfems, and transmisogny was not even vaguely mentioned in this post so idk what you're pulling that out your ass for. And yes, the original post *was* about archetypes in fiction, and about how it would be better if all characters were female. Or more specifically, that all characters would become better if they became female. Which is... wildly sexist, and incredibly offensive. It deserved to be spoken up against.

without tumblr MRAs, who would make me laugh out loud in the laundromat?

cool. another black child died in a hate crime

im posting this here despite the website being extremely white centered, I want people to understand how in this country it's basically ok to murder and victimize black people, especially women and children in the name of "self defense" and white America will reward you for your antiblackness.

sometimes i don’t feel trans enough even tho i’ve been nonbinary for years, and typically don’t refer to myself as being trans. i thought i wasn’t doing enough to separate myself from cis people (whatever that means) however, i feel like a hare while my cis coworkers are rabbits and also i look and feel super queer and literally haveee gender dysphoria. point is, idk what else ive been expecting from myself to feel i deserve to refer to myself as trans with all this mounting evidence lol. ive finally come to terms with it 🙏🏾

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Hey folks, Swarnim's an old friend and a talented engineer. As Aruvi said, a dollar goes a longer way in India, and India's current regime is exceedingly unkind to trans women trying to find gainful employment, or even just live their lives. Please help a trans woman from the third world support herself!

this is beceause every1 wants to be bunnieds. amd thats good.

someone should give me 400 dollars so i can repair my computer i hate being disabled and making like No money and it BROKE from a power surge

hi beloved tumblr. im still in need here. im a disabled trans girl who's often unwillingly mostly housebound and working from home and i use my pc and programming as a way to self-regulate and Not Having That has done a huge number on my mental health. luckily, the DDR5 ram escaped unscathed (i was able to test), but the system needs a new Everything Else. if you can help me, i will love you for ever and ever. while i do work fulltime, i live in South Africa and my salary translates to less than 600 usd :/

hi friends. its looking like i'll have to RMA every part of it individually, and im also struggling with Various Other Life Shit rn (i need new estrogen and gotta pay for groceries). waa

give my friend money ok please

if you needed any more proof that literally all that essay was good for was giving the few disgustingly parasocial & ableist tgirls more of a go-ahead to harass disabled girls, here you go

going above and beyond merely "dumping your puppygirl" to hunt disabled transfems down to attempt to murder them, not that that's anything new; they just have a shiny new transfem-backed excuse and acceptable target for the hate and murder they've always carried and wanted

Soviet embassies and intelligence stations adhered rigidly to orders from Molotov and Beria to report nothing which suggested the inevitability of war. On 24 May, when the Finnish ambassador in Istanbul gave his Soviet counterpart details of German formations deployed on the Soviet border, Stalin's man asked contemptuously whether the Finn had counted the soldiers himself. A week later, Timoshenko and Zhukov were summoned to the Kremlin, and arrived expecting orders to put Soviet defences on full alert. Instead they were handed Stalin's acceptance of a transparently fraudulent request from Berlin that squads of Germans should be allowed to roam inside Russias border in search of 1914-18 war dead. The generals were obliged to fume in impotence while Hitler's scouts surveyed their chosen battlefields, protected by spades and Stalin’s orders.