mermaid.

it’s not normal for your boyfriend to shove you when he’s angry.

it’s not normal for your boyfriend to call you a dumbass or a bitch when you’re in an argument.

it’s not normal for your boyfriend to threaten to leave the relationship every time you defend yourself.

it’s not normal for your boyfriend to invalidate your feelings.

it’s not normal for your boyfriend to not tell you who he’s with or where he’s going.

it’s not normal for your boyfriend to keep making the same detrimental mistake over and over.

it’s not normal for your boyfriend to use your insecurities against you.

it’s not normal for your boyfriend to make you feel guilty for having desires and needs.

it’s not normal for your boyfriend to tell you that you’re stupid when you cry.

it’s not normal for your boyfriend to cheat on you because he’s “just a stupid guy.”

it’s not normal for your boyfriend to rely on you when he doesn’t do a thing for himself.

it’s not normal for your boyfriend to hurt you intentionally.

please stop normalizing toxic romantic relationships. it’s not healthy for your partner to upset you and behave recklessly as long as he apologizes later. apologies mean nothing after he has repeatedly disrespected you. kisses and hugs mean nothing after he has repeatedly disrespected you. public displays of affection mean nothing after he has repeatedly disrespected you. promises mean nothing after he has repeatedly disrespected you. it is not okay for him to hurt you physically or emotionally because he said he’ll change. he hasn’t. he won’t. get out now because THIS! IS! NOT! NORMAL! other couples do not go through this. other couples did NOT have to go through this to be in a happy, wholesome place.

THIS SHIT WORKS OKAY, I AM DEAD SERIOUS.

The last time I saw this on my dash, I didn’t think it would happen, so jokingly I wished I could go to a fun. concert.

AND GUESS WHAT, I WENT TO A FUCKING FUN. CONCERT.

I SAW THIS ON MY DASH THE OTHER DAY AND THOUGHT “ITS WORTH A TRY” SO I WISHED I COULD GET A 3DS

LITERALLY LIKE 4 DAYS LATER MY DAD SENT ME A PICTURE OF THE 3DS XL HE BOUGHT FOR ME WHILE I WAS AT SCHOOL

GUYS.

HE FUCKING CALLED ME 20 MINUTES LATER

20 FUCKNG. MINUTES. LATER.

4 ‘Reverse Racism’ Myths That Need To Stop

It really all comes down to semantics. At some point, the actual meaning of “racism” got mixed up with other aspects of racism – prejudice, bigotry, ignorance, and so on. It’s true: White people can experience prejudice from black people and other non-whites. 

AS STUDENTS IN SCHOOL, WE LEARN ABOUT AFRICAN AMERICAN HISTORY IN OUR TEXTBOOKS IN HISTORY CLASS ALONG WITH THE REST OF AMERICAN HISTORY — ALONG WITH HISTORY ABOUT WHITE AMERICANS TOO. BLACK AMERICAN HISTORY AND WHITE AMERICAN HISTORY ARE NOT TWO SEPERATE THINGS. MAKING IT TWO SEPERATE THINGS IS THE PROBLEM. MAKING RACE ISSUES OUT OF EVERYTHING IS THE PROBLEM. MORGAN FREEMAN SAYS THE SAME THING ABOUT THIS TOPIC!!! STOP TALKING ABOUT RACISM. STOP BRINGING IT UP. STOP MAKING IT THE MAIN FOCUS OF YOUR WHOLE ENTIRE LIFE. ALL YOU ARE DOING IS MAKING IT WORSE BY CONSTANTLY ADDING TO IT. JUST STOP.