totalbottomcincy

A lot of submissives talk about devotion, but devotion means very little if it does not show itself through respect and obedience in the small moments that actually matter.

It is easy to feel submissive when you are turned on, emotionally overwhelmed, or caught up in fantasy. It is much harder when you are tired, frustrated, distracted, or in a mood and still choose to lower your attitude, listen carefully, and carry out what your Master has asked of you without unnecessary resistance.

Respect is not just words; it is the way you respond to correction without becoming defensive. It is the way you control your tone when emotions rise. It is the discipline of remembering that your Master is not another equal voice for you to challenge every time your ego feels uncomfortable. A submissive who truly respects his Master understands that leadership requires trust, and trust becomes impossible when obedience only appears when it is convenient.

There is something incredibly grounding about learning how to quiet your impulse to argue, push back, or make everything about your own feelings. A respectful submissive learns how to listen fully before reacting. He learns how to obey promptly instead of dragging his feet while secretly hoping the expectation disappears. He takes pride in being steady under authority because he understands that his obedience is not humiliation; it is loyalty and discipline. It is the conscious choice to offer his energy, effort, and attention to a Man who deserves it.

Using and/ or owning a faggot is a completely selfish and   one-sided activity. faggots exist for the sole and exclusive use of Superior MEN. faggots exist to be exploited for a Superior MAN’s personal sake and benefits.

A faggot is not companion, friend or lover. A faggot is not a sub, boy or even a slave. A faggot is lower than a slave. A faggot never sees itself as an equal in any way. A faggot recognizes the Superior MAN’s right to use it as HIS birthright.

A faggot is an inferior life form; a male animal, a beast of burden, thing or object. It is live-stock in human form that functions, acts, performs in whatever manner is required so that the Superior MAN can enjoy an enhanced and more comfortable lifestyle.

When the Superior MAN adopts the attitude that they have taken control of a faggot so that they can take possession of male animal that can be used in any way that suits HIS needs, satisfies HIS desires, and that the faggot is not deserving of any consideration whatsoever. The faggot is a thing, an object. The faggot is like a phone, car or anything else a Superior MAN might use as HE goes about HIS life.

There are on three primary reasons to have and use a faggot :

1.   Labor – put the faggot to work. The faggot is grateful for the opportunity to do work for a Superior MAN. All the chores that take time and prevent the Superior MAN from more interesting pursuits can be done by the faggot. Cleaning, laundry, yard work etc. Does the faggot have special skills – cook, handyman, etc. – the faggot’s skills are to be used and exploited. 

2.   Sex – a faggot can be used for sexual release. The entire sexual experience with a faggot is about a Superior MAN’s sexual needs. The faggot is really no more than a hole.

3.   Torture – there is enjoyment and gratification to be found in torturing a faggot. There is something satisfying in taking deep pleasure in the faggots suffering and see it come back for more. Craving YOU even more because of the things YOU do to it.

faggots exist to be used and faggots need to be used.

The faggot faces the reality of what it is; and understands without a Superior MAN to serve it is nothing, it has no purpose, no existence, no life. On the other hand a Superior MAN can have a rich, full life without ever using or owning a faggot.

The faggot knows and accepts what it is. A faggot accepts that it is inferior. That it is nothing but an object to be used and possibly discarded. The faggot understands that if it does not serve well, if it can’t be of use in any of the three categories than it has no value, no worth to the Superior MAN.

A faggot knows true contentment and has a sense of purpose only when it is being serving, being used and controlled by a Superior MAN. 

The faggot Serves, Worships and Obeys the Superior MAN

Let's be honest about Chastity for a moment... Good fags/boys/slaves endure chastity without question or complaint because they know their SIR/MASTER/Dom/Daddy see it as an important form of submission to THEM. And... Good SIRS/MASTERS/Doms/Daddies take note the gift of chastity fags/boys/slaves have given them and understand silence doesn't mean it's easy or 100% routine.

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Fair question.

Everyone can love chastity for different reasons, of course, just like any other kink. Here’s why I do :Chastity takes away a boy’s ability to use his dick. He can’t jerk off, he can’t penetrate anything, he can’t stimulate it, he can’t get hard. To me (and to a lot of people) the dick is the ultimate symbol of masculinity. So when a boy doesn’t have access to it the feel of masculinity alters. He’s no longer in control of his dick, it is now controlled by the keyholder. The boy doesn’t get pleasure from it, the boy can’t get hard, depending on the device, the boy might not even be able to see it. It’s emasculating. Not being able to cum makes the boy very horny. You’d be surprised what males are ready/want to do after not being able to cum for a few days/weeks. That makes him look for pleasure in other places. He wants to be touched anywhere, he wants to touch. In gay boys’ cases they think about dick non stop. They start playing with their ass to get some release so their hole becomes their sex organ. And because their hole is being stimulated and they get pleasure from it, it’s not just a hole anymore. It’s a cunt. They may not want to call it that, but that’s what it is in their head. So we now got a boy who’s hungry all the time, he trembles from the slightest touch and gets lots of pleasure from his new sex organ. Chastity improves sex for the boy. Not only is he more sensitive, but without being able to cum he will always enjoy sex. If you bottom, you know that if you cum - it’s game over. Your top has to stop because you don’t enjoy being fucked anymore. That problem goes away with chastity. Boy is always ready and eager. That, of course, makes sex better for me. Not to mention the hands free orgasm the boy can achieve after enough time in chastity. Once a boy cums without stimulating his clit, he’s changed forever. Chastity also never lets a boy forget who he is. You may be a bottom, you may be a sub. But you don’t think about that part of you when you’re at work or visiting you family or going to parties with your friends. The chastity device is always there, you can always feel it. Horny or not, sad or happy, alone or surrounded by people. You can always feel it, it’s a constant reminder that your manhood was taken away. It keeps you in your place, it never lets you forget that you get pleasure from getting fucked. Every time you need to use the bathroom you are faced with the reality of who you are : male but not a man. That changes a boy. His behavior becomes that of a sub even outside of the bedroom. Chastity builds up a lot of frustration and tension. That’s why it’s also a great way to motivate the boy go to the gym or be more productive in general. I’ve had a boy with a barely average body transform into a beast after just 1 year of chastity. I’m no longer his keyholder, but he still keeps the cage. He doesn’t want it off, because it motivates him so much.

 Any Superior can claim your mouth or ass at any time. 

 you are happiest on your knees

 you serve a purpose as a vessel for the excess Sperm of Superior Men. 

you know that a Man’s Sperm is the essence of the Man Himself, and that taking it inside you is an honor and  a gift. 

your main sex organs are your mouth and ass. your dick is irrelevant. 

you worship Men and the Masculine Power of Males. 

Even if you don’t feel like sucking a Cock or taking one up your ass, you do it anyway, because a Superior Male needs a hole to use. 

you recognize your innate inferiority, and happily submit to every Superior. 

you strive to be the best faggot you can be, mentally, physically and sexually, for the benefit of all Superior Males who may want to use you.