“who gon’ check me boo? ”
Never lied, never diluted. Always spoke the truth, I said from the beginning it seems fantastical and exaggerated but I’ve managed to consistently post bank statements, documents he’s received from the bank and sent over, and my story has been the same.
The man lives abroad, and I’m a student.
I have a family (immediate and external) who are very involved and circle around my life. I don’t lead a jetset lifestyle where I fly and shop til’ I drop, like a lot of other women on here are lucky enough to do. I can’t just fly to Dubai and have nobody ask questions. Hong Kong only happened because I had to lie my ass there, I'm black, and so my parents are black... so you can imagine how the conversations went. It took convincing.
HK is old, heavy-set, and was going through a serious depression when I met him. He’s gone through both emotional and physical trauma that occurred in his childhood with the scars still very much present, because he never received any therapy. He’s alone, working in a foreign country. Never married, no kids, only has two family members who sometimes fly out to see him. He doesn’t have friends, I’m probably the only person he speaks to consistently.
I equate our relationship to that of a teenager who volunteers and visits nursing homes and a lonely senior citizen, he gives me advice on family, friends, my career path, helps me with school, and THEN provides me with money if I need it. It’s always been reciprocated, I’m there for him and he’s there for me. I genuinely appreciate knowing him, it might be weird in a tag where for the most part nobody can stand their SD’s guts but honestly my guy is not bad. I actually like him, not romantically but just as a person. He’s kind, giving and an all around decent person.
Concerning the money once again, they are large lump sums, I am aware (no shade). When I first started, I remember reading about gift taxes in the US, accounts potentially being frozen due to large lump sums etc... so I went to the bank before to speak to the attendants, and always received the same answer. “People send through large amounts of money regularly” I’m assuming for business...idk bitch.
Right before HK dropped the 60k last year, I specifically drove my ass to the bank again cause I was shook it was gonna flag and was worried maybe the attendant could've been incorrect.. but HK dropped it and nothing happened. No accounts were frozen, no letter in the mail, no nada.
Also, concerning LovelyJasmineJ, my good friend, she’s never lied. Her POS sugar daddy just made so many promises, that he didn’t end up following through with. She got screwed over, just like many of you ladies do.
I don’t know where all this angst comes from. If you don’t believe me whatever, my intention isn’t to convince you of anything. You can do whatever you want, live your life anyway that you see fit.
Goodnight, sorry for the essay but I needed to vent.
