Lira Elixir 💙🏳️‍⚧️

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hinge told me i didn't fit. but i refuse to dim this. posting my trans self unapologetically and manifesting a man who actually SEES me. is it you? 💕

genuine question time: would you swipe right on someone like me? there's no wrong answer here, just interested in what people think and why they think it.

some people aren't looking for a conversation. they're looking for a reaction. and honestly, that realization changed everything for me. i stopped wasting my peace trying to win arguments with people who were never actually listening. protecting your energy isn't weakness. it's the realest form of strength.

i'm not here to prove i'm worthy. i already am. already came to that conclusion all on my own.

so here's something i've been thinking about: dating has always been complicated, but something shifted when apps made it *transactional*. like now you're not dating a person — you're auditioning people. you're comparing profiles like you're picking a product. and when you see a flaw, you just swipe to the next one. that's not how humans work. that's not how connection works. but we act shocked that nobody wants to actually *date* anymore.

the estrogen journey. the glow-up nobody expected but everybody's talking about. did it work? i think it did.

something i've accepted that changed my life: judgment is unavoidable. you can be perfect and someone still won't like it. you can fit every box and someone will still find something to criticize. so instead of wasting energy trying to please everyone, i decided to please myself. stopped trying to avoid judgment. started living the life that makes me feel alive. turns out, being yourself is so much better than being the version you think people want.

no bc why did I sleep on curls this long! is this giving good or am I delusional?

tried curly hair for the first time today... should I keep it? 👀

they said trans girls cant be pretty. i said watch me. black trans woman energy, thats what this is 🏳️‍⚧️

i've been thinking about this a lot: passing hits different depending on what you need it to mean. if you're talking about survival, your answer might be completely different than someone talking about self-expression. and that's not one of you being wrong. it's just that the question is more complicated than the word.

transition era: where people stop wondering and start seeing. because i'm undeniable. because i always have been, and now the world can't deny it. 🏳️‍⚧️ this is what black trans joy looks like.

everyone's got opinions on timelines but nobody asks you what YOUR timeline is. mine? fast when it matters. slow for nobody who doesn't deserve it.

the audacity of asking for a checklist of things to do to win my love like i'm not already a full person with full preferences and full standards. you either get it or you don't.

the confidence just hits different when it's earned through being completely yourself. trans women really said 'i'm going to own every inch of my existence' and we're all learning from it

the "you're tricking men" narrative is so tired. like bestie, what deception is happening? i exist. i'm trans. i'm confident. i'm not pretending to be anything else. if he sticks around it's because he sees me and is fine with it. wild concept, i know.