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something i've accepted that changed my life: judgment is unavoidable. you can be perfect and someone still won't like it. you can fit every box and someone will still find something to criticize. so instead of wasting energy trying to please everyone, i decided to please myself. stopped trying to avoid judgment. started living the life that makes me feel alive. turns out, being yourself is so much better than being the version you think people want.

no bc why did I sleep on curls this long! is this giving good or am I delusional?

tried curly hair for the first time today... should I keep it? 👀

they said trans girls cant be pretty. i said watch me. black trans woman energy, thats what this is 🏳️‍⚧️

i've been thinking about this a lot: passing hits different depending on what you need it to mean. if you're talking about survival, your answer might be completely different than someone talking about self-expression. and that's not one of you being wrong. it's just that the question is more complicated than the word.

transition era: where people stop wondering and start seeing. because i'm undeniable. because i always have been, and now the world can't deny it. 🏳️‍⚧️ this is what black trans joy looks like.

everyone's got opinions on timelines but nobody asks you what YOUR timeline is. mine? fast when it matters. slow for nobody who doesn't deserve it.

the audacity of asking for a checklist of things to do to win my love like i'm not already a full person with full preferences and full standards. you either get it or you don't.

the confidence just hits different when it's earned through being completely yourself. trans women really said 'i'm going to own every inch of my existence' and we're all learning from it

the "you're tricking men" narrative is so tired. like bestie, what deception is happening? i exist. i'm trans. i'm confident. i'm not pretending to be anything else. if he sticks around it's because he sees me and is fine with it. wild concept, i know.

transitioned into the best version of myself and i'm still learning how to live inside this peace. every day feels like permission i'm finally giving myself.

i'm about to tell you things that'll rewire your entire brain

the energy of a girl who knows she doesn't have to convince anyone because she's already convinced. 🏳️‍⚧️ that's the meddler. that's me. sorry not sorry.

social media: where some people build others up and some tear them down. the power is that you get to choose whose opinions actually matter to you. protect your mind. that's the move that changes everything.

there's freedom in just existing as yourself. that's the whole point, right?

been thinking about why people are so scared of the undefined. why do we need to sort everyone into categories so badly? maybe it's about control. maybe it's about comfort. but people are so much more interesting when you stop reducing them to a single word. understanding someone is work. it takes patience and actual curiosity. i'm not trying to be simple for anyone.