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I keep hearing stories about afab people having never had orgasms and coming from sheltered backgrounds, and amab people being so scared of failing their partners they self sabotage in bed…

And I think about how when I was on an ssri I 100% just did not orgasm and I was talking to my regular therapist who… happened to be a kink and sex forward therapist (not why I saw her, funnily enough) and she looked and me and nodded and said, “okay… and does sex HAVE to end in orgasm to be accomplished?” And I have literally never heard anyone suggest it’s OKAY to not orgasm. It isn’t a failure to complete the event. Wild. It big time changed my perspective on happy enjoyable sex. (Btw, I switched my antidepressant to an snri and it helped a lot. Still low-ish libido but better in other regards. If you’re on an ssri and frustrated by that aspect of the side effects, try asking your psych about an snri and if it could help)

One has been flagged, appealing and seeing how that goes.

But yo… if you remember me and are here too, give me a shout out. Hope we… get to use this site for nsfw again.

CROPPED NSFW. 

Full image at twitter (https://twitter.com/tompletono/status/1080300801879240706) with more of my work!

I definitely didn’t delete my blog, just threw it on to private mode while we were all watching to see what Tumblr decided to do with NSFW blogs. (For some reason it didn’t let people know I was privatized, but just told people my blog no long existed)

Thank you all so much for supporting me over the years. I started out as a really shy person, super uncomfortable with sharing nsfw drawings and now it’s something I really enjoy and feels really important to me. You’ve all been super supportive and have helped me grow in a way that I wanted to.