They say that teaching can perhaps be an even greater learning experience for the teacher. Of course, my goal as a teacher isn't quite that ;-). First I am going to share about my guitar/music teaching background and secondly, I’ll share a story of synchronicity that I experienced with my student, Charlotte from back in 2006. Lastly, I am giving a shout out to my favorite teachers.
About Teaching Guitar and Music and its Gifts
Well, after about 20 years of teaching guitar--which started from one inspired mom insisting that I teach her child guitar-- I gotta say that I have benefited immensely. I am definitely always learning from my students. I've been blessed with a wonderful community of students/parents/families who share a common love of music. I have never paid for an advertisement to attract students- they just started lining up and happen via word-of-mouth due to happy moms and dads spreading the word= the best of ways.
Simply said, meshing my worlds of music and teaching have treated me wonderfully.
I have taught over 150 students privately and helped hundreds of students write their first songs. I have prepared many students for that dreamy yet nerve-wracking task of performing the big end of the year school “Talent Show” and hosted/produced a number of music showcases for my students. I have held band camps, songwriting camps and been the music director for a Hollywood summer break camp.
It’s a pleasure to be part of something where I can help facilitate someone's development of their skills and creativity and being able to nurture/instill confidence/brevity is definitely something I don’t take lightly. Once while I was in 4th grade, during my little league football experience, my coach never put me in for even one play in one particular game. I felt awful/forgotten/unimportant/passed over. I was a combination of sad and pissed off. I mean after all It’s freaking little league football-- we’re just kids. He did call me to apologize-- so at least he owned it...but that didn’t change how I felt about him and I let it get to me-- how could I not, I was only 10. Coaches/parents/teachers who don’t keep things fun or in perspective lose me. I feel compelled to lead with joy and believe in our students/players. I guess, in a way, that I am grateful for that coach showing me “how not to be”; as a result I am a better teacher for it.
I didn’t have a guitar when I was a child, but loved listening to music for hours. I was very rhythmic and musical-- could sing hundreds of songs by heart and could be seen lip syncing and performing as Mick Jagger, Isaac Hayes or The Rascals as a kid--and played my first talent show as a senior in high school. I performed the school song on my hands. (A year or so previously, I had seen a man perform a song on The Tonight Show and laughed hard...I got inspired-- I had it in my mind that I could do that too...it just took some practice...but I got it down.) I played songs on my hands for my friends and had them laughing...so I mustered up enough courage to go in for the Talent Show. I was a bit shy/nerdy as a high schooler...so this move was me stepping up and stepping out. I was a bit afraid...so I wore dark glasses and couldn’t really see the audience. It just felt like me alone on the stage and it somehow felt natural, was fun and such a rush...and boom - I had people laughing.
I wanted to find more ways to play music and entertain-- so that will of force drew me forward to getting my first bass guitar 8 months after the Talent Show... and I started playing in a band with my high school mates less than 2 years later in 1990...and I am not going to go thru my last 31 years ...which leads me to here and now in 2021: Therefore I teach kids that they are the ultimate instrument. They just need to put in the time and energy and let it play out through their chosen musical instrument. I align with the students inspiration to help light the way...and to ensure that our time together is always joyful, feels safe and cultivate a place for growth. It is awesome to see someone learning right in front of your eyes...or in between sessions. It is sweet to hear the stories of the student ‘showing off’ in front of friends, and having that first break-thru moment of carrying their guitar up the stairs to take it into the bedroom and spend more time with their sacred instrument. I just now got a clip from a mother sending me a video of her son practicing his electric guitar before school.
I have had the great pleasure of watching young students grow into talented kind cool adults (and musicians) and having worked in the homes of some families upwards to 10 years…which leads me to the next part of the blog.
An fun experience with one of my first long-time students, Charlotte.
Just Like Heaven - Charlotte
Let me share with you a story from one of my first special students. The synchronicity I’ve experienced with her leads me to believe yet even further that there is one gentle spirit that goes through us all and confirms that we connect in ways that are powerful and awesome.
On a Saturday that I was driving over to my student’s(Charlotte) house, I was having a conversation in my head. I thought about how I was going to Barcelona, Spain to see my brother in a few weeks. I then spoke aloud by myself pronouncing the word “Barcelona" as most Spaniards do:
Barr-tha-loh-nah. Just as I was doing so and driving 40mph while heading east on Los Feliz Blvd, my minds eye caught the facing of an apartment complex on the north side of the road that read: Barcelona. Bam!
After I arrived at Charlotte’s, I started tuning my guitar when the then 13 year-old student rocker walked in. She is a huge fan of music. She usually loves learning classic rock songs by bands such as The Beatles, The ‘Stones, The Who, and of course, Led Zeppelin. Always wanting to learn something new, I asked her what she wanted to learn on this particular Saturday.
So, when she asked: Do you know the song “Just Like Heaven?” I experienced bit of awe and wonder…laughed...and I knew that I had to tell her how much I was experiencing that song over the course of the last couple of weeks…and also told my recent “Barcelona” experience.
Two weeks previously, I co-hosted a party at my band’s downtown studio/loft for my friend, Spence. As a few of us were setting up, the song “Just Like Heaven” by The Cure came on in the Itunes random play list. I then thought about how genius of a pop song it is. I have loved this song since I first heard it back in 1987. The song still sounds great today…not dated and is full of sexy poetry and tasty guitar hooks. So, I stopped doing the “set-up” and picked up a guitar. I learned the chords and lead-guitar bit to the song. What a great song!
A couple days later, I turned on my Itunes to start my day. I love getting in the groove of a day by listening to my favorite tunes. I smiled as “Just Like Heaven” randomly came on first to start my day. Again, I remembered how genius it was. Sweet! I then went out and experienced a nice day, which ended with me driving home from my band’s studio in which I cleaned up the loft from that party. The last song that I heard in my car before parking was, you guessed it: “Just Like Heaven.”
Which then lead up to Charlotte wanting to play that song…because she heard it in a movie of the same title. Of course, I knew how to play that song...Just Like Heaven- message received.
I also would like to give a shout out to the teachers and coaches who made learning and playing fun. The passion and care from these individuals took to learning to a place a cut above the others. I learned a lot from these people and they’ve inspired me when I have been called to lead.
3rd grade teacher- Anita Arndt
4th grade teacher- Dean Mollerud
6th Grade teachers- Tim Marsten & Ralph Fiskness
7th Grade Math- Tom Trautman
8th Grade History- Ivan Camrud
9th Grade Basketball- Flint Motschenbacher
10th Grade English- Sid Korpi
10th Grade Geometry- Tom Berger
11th & 12th Grade English- Linda Wallenberg
12th Grade Government- Steve Cwodzinski
12th Grade Economics- Mark Ritter
College Baseball Coach Dean Bowyer
Special shoutouts to teacher/coaches Larry Anderson, Jon Lovaas and Mike Tobin. Nina Salveson, Dallas Snyder and Joanne Huchel.