Toasted Heels

now that the world cup is out of the way can we focus on me instead

You can’t skip the messy part. The messy part is where you grow.

no i dont want to ‘ask chatgpt’ i want to go to a wikipedia page and spend half an hour reading an article like a real person

Your self respect has to be greater than your desire to be loved.

*gun shot*

I need to stop replying to “how do you make friends in your 30s?” threads because all my answers boil down to “you have to want to know people instead of have friends” and I don’t think people wanna hear that

It’s like. People can tell if you don’t really like or connect with them. If you aren’t truly enamored with someone you will have a hard time coming up with activities to do together to deepen the friendship. Because you don’t really like that person that much.

due to personal reasons im running up that hill

i don’t ask for much but i might start

you don't just marry a person. you marry their ecosystem. their food. the temperature of their house. their sleep schedule. their friends.their family. their way of moving through the world

Don't give up on the vision you've been speaking into existence since childhood.