One of my best first dates ever was insanely hot with no sex involved. The furthest we went was a quick French kiss. What was so hot was how he made use of me.
After dinner (where we discussed a lot about our views on male and female roles) we went back to his apartment to watch a movie. He knelt down to take off my heels, kissed my forehead, and then mentioned that his dirty laundry was in the other room and he had to go send a work email before our movie.
When he went to email, I threw in a load of laundry and started folding the clean boxers from the dryer. Once he was done with the emails, he saw me folding, told me where to leave the clothes when I was done, and to meet him on the way couch after.
He had a drink waiting for me on the couch, kissed my forehead and complimented my work. We cuddled all movie and afterwards I asked why he told me about the laundry. He told me "girls like you do best when you have something to take care of. That made sure your pretty little head didn't drift too far while I was occupied. And I knew you'd do so well since you've known your place for so long". He was right and I loved every second.
I love love love this! Getting appreciated for chores is so perfect. It’s so thoughtful for Men to leave us chores. Having a job is so dumb. The best performance review I ever got was a Man telling me I folded and put away all his clothes correctly and he was in awe of me. That’s the praise that feels best 💕
