Stargazing

carer who regulates your nervous system 1. carer who is always curious before accusational. youre regressed and keep making a mess of your craft supplies right after they clean it up? "hey bubs, is this a special pile?" they wait patiently. "dada i hasa find da perfct stiker an an paper fow dis!" they understand and try to find a solution to make both of you happy. "okay bubs, can you be dadas little helper and sort your supplies in this box? dada can help you dump them in, yeah?" when you're both done, "awwee you're dadas sweet litle baby! have fun!" you will never hear any kind of toxic message from them. 2. carer who is always conscious of your headspace and adjusts their behavior based off their conclusion. youre in toddlerspace and too fussy at bedtime? "baby girl, look at mommy, yes, I know you don't wanna go nini, but if you stay up all night, you'll be too sleepy to run around the convention." using the appropriate methods to take care of you. "noooooo! i not!!" "okay then, can you snuggle up with mama while she reads your favorite book? we're not sleeping, we're just gonna get comfy under the covers and dim the lights-- you know mamas eyes are sensitive" spoiler alert: kiddo did end up falling eep they will never take advantage of your vulnerability or poke fun at your regression. 3. carer who doesn't bat an eye for anything lgbtq related. (bonus points if they are in that community themselves). you have to take a testosterone shot and you're afraid of needles? "sweet pea I can do it for you, can you be brave and hold onto (stuffie name) while carer takes care of it? yeah? okay look away!" or "squirt, I know you're scared but look at your papa! he takes these alllll the time, here, ill show you it isnt so scary!" you guys can take your shots together :) "good job kiddo! here, i got (fav cartoon) bandaids for you! let carer put them on!" 4. carer who doesn't bat an eye for anything disability. (bonus points if they are in that community themselves). you're autistic and get overstimulated with certain things? they fully accomodate you and try their best to avoid said thing, but if its inevitable, they always have sensory stuff for you. you have a physical disability? they research all about it and surprise you with the "i know" when you start subconsciously explaining or just already inputting a change (ok we're speedrunning now bc im kinda tired of long ones so we multiplying) 5. carer who doesnt care how unconventional or not common a thing is, they believe you on it, listen, and work together to tackle it 6. carer who happily changes you whether its an accident, occasional, or daily thing. carer who literally is cool w pullups, diapers, whatever

ᴵ'ᵐ ˢᵃᵈ ᵇᵉᶜᵃᵘˢᵉ ᴵ ʲᵘˢᵗ ʷᵃⁿᵗ ˢᵒᵐᵉᵒⁿᵉ ᵗᵒ ˡᵒᵒᵏ ᵃᶠᵗᵉʳ ᵐᵉ ᵇᵘᵗ ᴵ ᵈᵒⁿ'ᵗ ʰᵃᵛᵉ ᵃⁿʸ¹ ᵗᵒ 𐔌՞.‸.՞𐦯

question for younger kiddos than me:

Kiddos who aren’t happy and silly and lovey. Kiddos who don’t like being touched, who aren’t little snuggle monsters on a daily basis. Kiddos who are grumpy and sad and quiet, and prefer independent play. Who like to be neat and clean and read their picture books and color inside the lines. Littles who don’t likes kisses or hugs or physical affections or saying I love you over and over.

Insomnia Moodboard

To all my regressor friends

I love blues clues soo muchh :3

age regression is mostly portrayed as pastels and positive feelings, and im kinda sick of it. Don't get me wrong, I adore the cutesy aspects in the community, but sometimes regression is loud. sometimes it's crying in your room because you're too little and the world is too big, sometimes it's knowing you have responsibilities but you're about to regress, sometimes its fear and anxiety.