what is up with people coming up with arbitrary numbers (or perhaps the number at which a thing happened to them) and then saying "things definitely change for everyone in this specific way at this specific age." you can't drink like you used to past 25; your back will give out at 30, your knees at 35; everything will get better in your 40s because you stop caring about things... posts full of empty promises and/or dire warnings, comments sections full of young people placing faith in a future that may never manifest and/or being deeply anxious about made-up deadlines











