Gender's Not My Cup of Tea

The holidays have been a little odd this year. I love my family and I do miss them, but it’s so nice to be here with Lock where we won’t be misgendered or mistreated or uncomfortable. I’m looking forward to having a lie in on Christmas morning too…

It’ll be perfect. So long as you don’t make me wear those damn antlers.

Oh you’re wearing them. You owe me one.

Don’t you dare, or I’ll make you wear those wretched elf ears

If they’re so wretched, then why did buy them for me?

To make you suffer with me.

A little cute, huh? If I remember correctly, your face was the color of Rudolph's nose when I put them on...

The holidays have been a little odd this year. I love my family and I do miss them, but it’s so nice to be here with Lock where we won’t be misgendered or mistreated or uncomfortable. I’m looking forward to having a lie in on Christmas morning too…

It’ll be perfect. So long as you don’t make me wear those damn antlers.

Oh you’re wearing them. You owe me one.

Don’t you dare, or I’ll make you wear those wretched elf ears

If they're so wretched, then why did buy them for me?

The holidays have been a little odd this year. I love my family and I do miss them, but it’s so nice to be here with Lock where we won’t be misgendered or mistreated or uncomfortable. I’m looking forward to having a lie in on Christmas morning too…

It’ll be perfect. So long as you don’t make me wear those damn antlers.

Oh you're wearing them. You owe me one.

Haven’t had a good case in forever. You’d think crime would go up around holiday. John’s been making cocoa though which is nice.

I think it's nice that they're haven't been to many crimes lately, even if it means I have to deal with a sulky detective...

@thoughtsfrom221nb thanks for sticking up for me and correcting that jerk about my pronouns… You didn’t have to fight him you know. When he was rude I mean.

I will always defend you love. No one gets to misgendered you and no one gets to act like a prick around you either.

#you like watching me fight True but I don’t like seeing you get hurt

He barely got me.

@thoughtsfrom221nb thanks for sticking up for me and correcting that jerk about my pronouns… You didn’t have to fight him you know. When he was rude I mean.

I will always defend you love. No one gets to misgendered you and no one gets to act like a prick around you either.

Last night we had Lestrade and Molly and a few others for Halloween. I’m still a little disappointed John wouldn’t wear that sexy nurse costume I found. A boy can dream though :P

Maybe if you’d found a sexy patient costume of your own we could have worked out a deal...

@thoughtsfrom221nb I booked a room to practice my routine tonight if you want to watch. I know you like seeing me dance. I have a feeling it’s just because you like seeing me in those leggings I wear.

I'm not gonna lie, your arse looks amazing in those things. I do love to watch you dance though. You're very talented love.

I’m very tempted to skip classes so I can stay next to John when they wake up instead

Curse school for robbing me of Sherlock cuddles.

He… he was one of my first boyfriends. And I… I don’t know that I wanted sex, but I wanted to try it. To see what it was like. So, you know, we started doing stuff and it was weird and I wasn’t sure I liked it. I’ve always been kinda weirded out by genitals. But we did it. I came back a different time and he wanted to… and I… I kept moving his hand to areas I was more comfortable with… away from… I guess he didn’t take the hint…

Oh love, I’m so sorry that happened to you. Thank you for telling me.

I don’t think he realized. I wasn’t saying anything. Still… I had to have moved his hand at least five times… you’d think…

How do you not realize your partner is uncomfortable? I don’t understand people like that. I won’t ever treat you like that Sherlock. I promise.

I know you wouldn’t. You’re too good to ever. The kicker is none of this is even the reason I left him.

Please don’t tell me he did something else assanine.

Other than some emotionally manipulative bullshit to try and get me back that I wasn’t buying, no. We just broke up for normal boring reasons. Still. Should have ended it sooner.

Well, I'm glad you realize that he treated you poorly. He never deserved you.

He… he was one of my first boyfriends. And I… I don’t know that I wanted sex, but I wanted to try it. To see what it was like. So, you know, we started doing stuff and it was weird and I wasn’t sure I liked it. I’ve always been kinda weirded out by genitals. But we did it. I came back a different time and he wanted to… and I… I kept moving his hand to areas I was more comfortable with… away from… I guess he didn’t take the hint…

Oh love, I’m so sorry that happened to you. Thank you for telling me.

I don’t think he realized. I wasn’t saying anything. Still… I had to have moved his hand at least five times… you’d think…

How do you not realize your partner is uncomfortable? I don’t understand people like that. I won’t ever treat you like that Sherlock. I promise.

I know you wouldn’t. You’re too good to ever. The kicker is none of this is even the reason I left him.

Please don't tell me he did something else assanine.

He… he was one of my first boyfriends. And I… I don’t know that I wanted sex, but I wanted to try it. To see what it was like. So, you know, we started doing stuff and it was weird and I wasn’t sure I liked it. I’ve always been kinda weirded out by genitals. But we did it. I came back a different time and he wanted to… and I… I kept moving his hand to areas I was more comfortable with… away from… I guess he didn’t take the hint…

Oh love, I’m so sorry that happened to you. Thank you for telling me.

I don’t think he realized. I wasn’t saying anything. Still… I had to have moved his hand at least five times… you’d think…

How do you not realize your partner is uncomfortable? I don't understand people like that. I won't ever treat you like that Sherlock. I promise.

He… he was one of my first boyfriends. And I… I don’t know that I wanted sex, but I wanted to try it. To see what it was like. So, you know, we started doing stuff and it was weird and I wasn’t sure I liked it. I’ve always been kinda weirded out by genitals. But we did it. I came back a different time and he wanted to… and I… I kept moving his hand to areas I was more comfortable with… away from… I guess he didn’t take the hint…

Oh love, I'm so sorry that happened to you. Thank you for telling me.