DEAR READER
Claire Keane
Cosmic Funnies
Love Begins
pixel skylines
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Lint Roller? I Barely Know Her
"I'm Dorothy Gale from Kansas"
todays bird
let's talk about Bridgerton tea, my ask is open
trying on a metaphor
noise dept.
ē„ę„ / Permanent Vacation
Discoholic šŖ©
Keni
we're not kids anymore.
Kaledo Art
he wasn't even looking at me and he found me
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@thorette
Becoming a parent after having difficult and/or narcissistic parents #10:
When something breaks, spills, fails, or goes wrong, I still feel panic, my chest tightens, and I can feel survival mode setting in. I know I would have gotten in trouble one way or another for the same thing when I was a kid. But this time around as the parent, I know it really is just a spill, just an accident, and not a big deal.
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Becoming a parent after having difficult and/or narcissistic parents #9:
I found that having a kid is part of healing. Watching your baby grow up opens up locked memories. Most of mine were bitter, but some were sweetāall were crucial to this journey on becoming family.
Becoming a parent after having difficult and/or narcissistic parents #8:
Watching my kids grow up is a blessing. But beyond thatāI recognize that they are their own people. They are individuals with interests, hobbies, favorites, likes, dislikes, perspectivesā¦ I recognize that these things donāt always align with my own and still see their growth and development as a blessing instead of someone to control and mold. I only want to mold them to be good people
Becoming a parent after having difficult and/or narcissistic parents #7:
All the things you wanted to do as a kid but never got to because of control or apathy you will make sure you get to do with your kids. This could be hobbies, experiences, tripsā¦ one could argue that finance may be part of it, but my sentiment goes beyond that. I found that many things I wanted to try, the adults in my life wrote it off because they werenāt interested or told me it was a dumb idea. Having kids means you foster their interests even if theyāre not your own.
Becoming a parent after having difficult and/or narcissistic parents #6:
Youāre going to hear your kid ask you to play with them and youāre going to make the time to play with them <3
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Becoming a parent after having difficult and/or narcissistic parents #5:
As your kids grow, youāll realize that your parents may have sometimes been overstimulated and dealt with it in unhealthy ways. You know you were just a kid doing kid things. So when youāre overstimulated, you know not to take what you kid is doing personally, and you will make better, healthier choices.
Chai tea bag + lil but of brown sugar + apple cider packet + 16 oz. mug of hot but not quite boiling water
it will not Fix You but like. maybe. maybe.
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Update: this is the best post I've ever made because everyone is sharing their Warm Beverage recipes in the notes. Go check the notes for more Warm Beverages That Will Fix You.
I will forever rely on warm comfort drinks
Becoming a parent after having a narcissistic parent #4:
Therapy and a strong village may be essential to process and/or re-process long forgotten memories that are unlocked, triggered from normal interactions with and observations of your kid(s).
From personal experienceāthese flashbacks happen all the time. Memories both good and bad are suddenly present, triggered by small things that happen during every day instances. I didnāt realize my brain remembered so many things from my childhood.
It occurred to me that I may have been confused, mistaken, plain wrong, or all threeācurrently recalculating.
My parentsā problems were not my problem until their problems prevented them from being there for me when I needed them. And thatās not my fault, and thatās not something I can fix, or something Iām obligated to forgive.
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Becoming a parent after having a narcissistic parent #3:
Before you have kids, youāre afraid of
NOT being kind
NOT being a good parent
NOT being able to break the cycle.
However, these fears are evidence of self awareness, which leads to recognition and knowledge. With these tools, change is possible YET only if you value yourself and have the confidence that you are better than where you came from.
Becoming a parent after having a narcissistic parent #2:
Itās completely possible to be a healthy parent after suffering under the rule of a toxic parent.
Ask me how I know ā„ļø
Becoming a parent after having a narcissistic parent:
Parenting is not for everyone, but if you want kidsāNo one will tell you thisā being a parent is so much fun.
Did I live in a haunted house
With tiles cracking like eggshells
Photos on the wall, watching me tiptoe
Up the hallway that grows longer and longer
Hoping I can get to my room before I hear screaming
Ducking to avoid the menacing blow
Promising myself that the house I build when Iām older wonāt be haunted
I do not play into your little game.
You may tempt me, but I abstain.
I could step up but I certainly wonāt.
Itās ādamned if I do, damned if I donātā
Itās not about being stubborn or proud
No matter how I bat I know Iāll strike out.
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I had a sudden realization that emotional and fast drivers are trying to metaphorically, emotionally, and/or subconsciously escape something in their life.
Every person I know who drives like a lunatic is trying to escape something-a job, a situation, a personā¦
It makes more sense the more I think about it.
I had no idea what it meant to be a mother.
But I always wanted it.
I was more eager and enthusiastic than I should have been.
Then I realized I did not want to be my mother.
And still, I wanted to be one.
When I became a mother, I was wary of myself and my motherās shadow.
Now I am a mother unlike my own.
I donāt know how I did it.
Presently Iām very proud of how far Iāve come.
