Why do you relate to the wolf?
Shit... why do you always ask hard questions bud, OK... I'm going to get real.
So as a kid, I liked wolves for the same reason a lot of kids do.... they were cool as fuck. They were the loner animal. Strong, dangerous, independent, surviving out in the wild on their own terms.
Then I had Hodgkinās disease as a teenager and I think my relationship with the idea of the wolf changed a little. I felt isolated a lot after that. I felt resentful even. Different. More inside my own head. So the āloner wolfā thing became less about āthat animal is badassā and more like āmaybe I can still be okay even if I feel painfully alone.ā There kind of helped me get through those hard times.
Whatās funny is that as I got older and actually learned more about wolves, I realized most of what we thought about them for years was wrong, REALLY WRONG. The whole āalpha wolf lone dominanceā thing mostly came from stressed captive wolves, not real wild behavior. Real wolves are social as hell. Theyāre family animals. Cooperative. Protective. Emotional. They raise young together, grieve, play, travel as a pack.
And honestly? I think that made me love them even more.
Because at this point in my life, I donāt actually think Iām a true loner. I just think Iām somebody whoās always felt a little wild and a little out of place, while still deeply needing and wanting connection, community and acceptance. That feels a lot closer to what wolves actually are.
Also... I still agree with child me... they are still cool as fuck lol.
