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Guys this has worked out for me n kept me away from so many toxic n lame people because they knew that I knew that I deserve better.

You don’t own anyone more than no. I usually just shrug and don’t give people anything to feed off of and it’s dies after that. But this is a really good idea for chasing off the creeps.

Sometimes we are ungrateful for those who fight for us. I like my feminists rude angry and loud. Being passive never got us anywhere and if feminists in the past gave a shit about being viewed as rude we wouldn’t have made any progress. I’m sure people told them to “rationally” talk to men about why they deserve respect. I’m sure they were told to keep expanding their emotional labor, and I’m sure people told them it would be more effective if men didn’t think women hated them. Same song different generation. Stay rude, oppressors always benefit from your silence and kind heart.

Men drop dead challenge begin

When men’s emotional issues no longer leave body counts full of dead or battered or deeply emotionally drained women, then I will care about grown men whining about their lack of emotional insight. Until then make your own groups, get a therapist who isn’t a random female friend, and figure it out- it’s not feminists’ problem.

Sure, relationships typically start with a honeymoon phase that then grows into something deeper but a bit more mellow if things work out, but it’s depressing as fuck that this has turned into a really, really common script for straight relationships that says it’s totally normal and inevitable for dudes to just become more and more emotionally checked out of the relationship, and leave it to their girlfriend/wife to perform if she wants to get even a crumb of affection from him. I’m so fucking tired of seeing women constantly being taught that decades of emotional neglect is just our lot in life.

people underestimate how complex and corrupted a women’s relationship to our own desires can be (because we have spent a lifetime being told what we want doesn’t matter…in general…and that we exist to serve and please others)

the other side of the coin, which seems to not be clicking with most people, of “so many more women are victims of sexual violence than we realized and so few speak out” is “so many more men than we thought are sexual predators who continue to live with zero consequences for it because they like all other men benefit from women’s shame and silence”

Violence against Women Who Are Wrong is still violence against women. It’s still abhorrent, still unacceptable.

Kindly realize, one, endorsing men’s battery of women for bad ideology is saying women should be afraid to hold views men don’t approve of—it’s literally endorsing using patriarchal violence to control women, and two, I block MRAs on sight.

great advice but I can’t get over the fact their name is McNutt

Amy Dunne lost her mind because she literally gave up her identity for 5 years to be the perfect partner to a loser man that cheated on her anyway. That’s why women say he deserved it and why men view her as a sociopath. Bc most women have lost themselves in pursuit of approval from a man they were too good for at some point and most men have put a woman in that position….she got revenge for all of us sisters thank you for coming to my ted talk.

i think we need to stop focusing on telling little girls they need to be “empowered” & instead teach them about chaotic mirth, hijinks, & becoming complete rascals