One Door Closes

going with the flow in a face down in a river kinda way

tumblr is great bc its like a diary where I can take other peoples diary entries and glue them into my own diary

tumblring for these 6 people always in my notifications

What helped me write trauma better is remembering that the nervous system learns predictions. If danger used to come after quiet, calm can feel threatening. If kindness used to come with a price, kindness can feel suspicious. So healing is not just “they know they’re safe now.” Healing is the slow, annoying, deeply unfair process of teaching the body that the old prediction is not always the present truth.

This.

My alone time is for everyone’s safety

real intimacy isn’t built in bedrooms but in conversations where your raw thoughts, fears, and truths are met with love, patience, and a desire to understand

Safe to say that good communication can fix almost everything.

Edited to add….this can also happen in your 50’s.