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Make sure your decisions are your own. You may choose an option that someone else suggested but make sure you know why and that you see the wisdom in it for your situation. Don't blindly follow the wisdom or logic of others. #mondaymotivation #inspiration #morningmotivation #wisdom #counsel #choices #responsibility #traceyllouis #coaching #faith #christian

6 Signs Of True Forgiveness #forgiveness #morningmotivation #inspiration #traceyllouis #coaching #offense #tuesday #empower #encourage #forgive #dynamic #movingon #newjersey #newyork #december #family #friends #holidays

There is no outside force stopping you from prospering. Are there things you must overcome? Yes! Are there people who may get in your way? Yes! Are there systemic issues that make things more difficult? Yes! But none of those things are a death blow for anyone determined to succeed and a live a life of their own intentional creation. Figure out your major roadblocks. Determine why those things have been so and begin to work on the solutions to help you overcome them. #inspiration #morningmotivation #traceyllouis #coaching #roadblocks #monday #success #empower #intentionalcreation #solutions #nyc #newjersey

#coaching #love #peace #happiness #tllcoaching #finalthought #friday #success

It can be difficult to let go of a goal, person, idea, or habit you once held tightly and felt that it provided some level of benefit or comfort. However, since life is about change and moving purposefully toward a higher level of being, many of the #goals, #people, #ideas, or #habits may no longer have a beneficial place in our lives. It's can be hard to move on because it requires letting go and saying goodbye to a certain way of seeing yourself and processing life through. But you ARE #strong & #courageous. You CAN release what no longer benefits you to grab firmly what nurtures and benefits you. Also, be patient enough to wait on what you truly want. A life that settles will never be truly fulfilled because it hasn't achieved its potential. The moment you detect that greater potential isn't being utilized is the moment you begin to regret settling. Sometimes that happens sooner than you may have hoped. You were created for #greatness and that takes time. Nothing worth having happens overnight. Long-lasting #peace and #joy are hard won and long suffering. They come as a result of a process. Be #patient. Something greater is in store. #hope #courage #patience #greatness #coaching #tllcoaching

#coaching #finalthoughtfriday #tllcoaching #athlete #games #quitting #winning #train

Just a reminder. ❤

I'm not trying to belittle the challenges you face right now, but they're not worth the worry and energy you're putting into them. They're not worthwhile opponents for you. You have significance and a purpose to fill. Most of the things we give our creative energy to don't help further our goals. Your circumstance can't stop you from pursuing purpose unless you allow it. YOU have the power to change your outlook and actions which will therefore change your circumstances eventually. So... Focus on those things that facilitate creativity, service, love, and joy. Your current problems (I know you're uncomfortable and that's understandable) ain't nobody got time for that! {Thank you Sweet Brown 😜}

Know that the DNA for everything you ever dreamed of being is already within you. Right now you are worthy of all the things you desire. The seeds of success, wealth, happiness, loving relationships, and health are IN YOU RIGHT NOW!! You're not a spouse because you got married (plenty of married folks don't know what it truly means to be a spouse and choose to honor and love the same person daily even when the "feeling" isn't there that day.) You're a spouse because you understand what it takes and act accordingly before the wedding takes place. You're not financially wealthy because you got a lump of money (plenty of people get a lump of cash and end up broke afterward). You're wealthy because you understand and implement the principles of wealth building consistently. You're not a parent just because you have a child. You're a parent when you understand and are willing to submit to sacrifice, service and unconditional love BEFORE the kid arrives. (Anyone of reproductive age can have a child, that doesn't make them a parent) You didn't achieve business success magically (Lots of folks are "entrepreneurs" or "hard workers" and yet don't achieve success). You've achieved because somewhere down the road you understood that you needed to provide excellent service and exert consistent effort toward something of value to someone else. RIGHT NOW see yourself as ALL that you desire to be. If you don't see it, accept it, and walk in it now you'll never have it. Sometime you have to build the garage BEFORE you get the car. #DNA #success #marriage #wealth #health #tllcoaching #garage #car #parent #child #reproductive #coaching #vision #entrepreneur (at http://TheProcessOfPurpose.com)

Although many can read it, no one can write the story of your life but you. Each day you've been blessed with is a page in the story of your life. Every moment of joy and achievement or testing and trial is a chapter. None of us can say exactly what will take place in our story, but we can be certain that the outcome will be based on the consistent daily action and character we display. Use today precisely for what it was created: a blank page to be colored by your brilliance. Each day brings a new opportunity for #growth #progress #love #success #happiness #forgiveness You are the #writer of your #timeless #classic! (at http://TheProcessOfPurpose.com)

Find at least one thing to be thankful for and you'll dispel the myth and gross exaggeration that "it's ALL bad" or "NOTHING is going right in your life." All it takes is one. One blessing makes you realize you are indeed blessed. One day makes you realize you have a new start. One person loving you makes you realize you are indeed loved. One true friend makes you realize loyalty and faithfulness exist. Find a reason, just one, to be grateful and you'll put the devil to shame. Just one. #thankful #gratitude #love #friendship #loyalty #faithfulness #one #day #coaching #tllcoaching (at http://TheProcessOfPurpose.com)

#FridayFunny #tllcoaching #Repost #Beyonce #BaddieBey #Coaching #TyHunter cc: @tytryone @baddiebey (at http://TheProcessOfPurpose.com)

Our fears and anxieties decrease DRASTICALLY when we stop focusing on the "what ifs" of tomorrow that no one can assuredly predict and begin to live with the awareness that TODAY you have your DAILY bread (#power, #control, #support, #energy, #resources, #ideas). Ease your stress and focus on today's tasks. Tomorrow won't matter if you can't make it through today. #FinalThoughtFriday #tllcoaching (at http://TheProcessOfPurpose.com)

To all my NY-NJ-CT peeps please Save The Date for May 7, 2013 at 7:00PM!!! I'll be hosting my largest coaching event yet!!! Admission will be $F-R-E-E.99!! Stay tunes for more details and tell others you know to get ready! Purpose will be pursued. Success will be celebrated. Faith will be energized. Connections will be made. May 7, 2013 in NYC!!! #events #purpose #faith #traceyllouis #tllcoaching #coaching (at www.TheProcessOfPurpose.com)

The one you're interested in shouldn't treat your heart like an episode of The Bachelor or any of the VH1 "dating" shows. Don't give a leading role to someone who still has you in the auditioning line with several others. Be clear on what you want and settle for nothing less than mutual respect and a shared vision. There's no harm in dating more than one person at once as long as you are open and honest CONSISTENTLY and willing to be held accountable to the stage you've stated you're in with all parties involved. But never make people compete for your affection and never allow yourself to be in competition for someone's affections. When people are ready to settle down with The One, there shouldn't be any confusion as to who that person is. If there's confusion and strife, you haven't found The One. Be responsible not only with your heart, but also with the ones you've been entrusted with. And never settled for a fleeting feature walk on role when you deserve to be the star of the show. #MatureLove #Love #Value #Worth #Audition #GodEsteem #TraceyLLouis #Coaching #TLLCoaching (at www.TheProcessOfPurpose.com)

Finished both of these weeks ago. Reviews coming soon to the blog. Stay tuned. #sexgod #radical #christianity #americandream #DavidPlatt #RobBell (at www.TheProcessOfPurpose.com)