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yoy all just hate me because I'm cold and distant and don't put effort into any relationships and off putting and frustrating to try to help or make plans with and I don't text and I don't call and I don't like doing much and I constantly make excuses for it all

I don’t know who needs to hear this, but if you let something slide because you were too shocked to react in the moment, you can bring it up the next time you talk to that person, you can text them, you can let them know it won’t slide again in the future. you don’t have to just accept that behavior indefinitely because you couldn’t gather your thoughts to say it made you uncomfortable when it first happened. you’re not making anything awkward, you are giving someone an opportunity to show care for you, and telling them you trust them enough to change their behavior. there is literally nothing wrong or bad with voicing discomfort even if the moment has already passed.

genuinely do NOT want the world to see me because i don’t think that they’d understand

the thing about disability is it really does sometimes boil down to "wow i wish i could do that" and then you can't. and it sucks.

accomodations are important but i think they miss the point of this post. sometimes you can't do it. at all. someone needs to do it for you or it will never happen.

"and then you force yourself anyway" folks im starting to think some of you really do not understand what it means to not be able to do things.

The kind of sex I want requires like 3 layers of psychological manipulation

gangrape that's more like a stray animal emergency rescue mission than rape. i'm thinking "careful careful careful eeeasy" and "he's just scared, poor thing" and "it's okay buddy it's okay we've got you"

A fetish can build character and morale

intoxication fetish so normalized and awesome but when i want him drooling and barely conscious on it from a head injury instead of alcohol im a sick pervert..,, SOCIETY

alright everyone, we’re picking ourselves up and going again. We’re putting ice on our split lips and busted knuckles. We’re doing our dishes and our laundry even if it stays hanging on the line for four days. We’re texting our friends back. We’re wiping the dust off our clothes. We’re booking and attending medical appointments. We’re taking the empty dishes out of our bedrooms. We’re sitting outside in the sunshine. We’re holding our heads up. We’re apologising to the people we’ve hurt. We’re forgiving ourselves.

reading old messages as a type of self-harm

#literally#understanding transfeminism makes it easier to understand how I move through the world as a tme person#it's directly useful to me and my own personhood#and that is the case for anyone-- if you are not reliant on feeling superior to transfems for your sense of self#& want to understand your place within these structures & why gendered dynamics play out how they do#then transfeminism will *help* you (@closet-keys )

ok so like. what do the transandrophobia dipshits think transphobia even is? whats an example of a form of trans oppression that is transphobia to them, since they feel the need to parcel out every special boy experience no matter how clearly there is an analog for trans femmes and enbies