Imagine for a moment one of your least successful favourite childhood movie actors. Maybe Steve Martin for example. See their life on that movie screen, and how many movies that they starred in without ever really "making it" like the worldwide phenomenons that still occupy popular media. Watch them move through scene after scene, from their beginning days up to their most popular when they will have felt like they were on the brink of the big time, like it was really on the up and soon to be great. See how all the shadows fall around them, and how the people they worked with will have known them. See how their relationships might have been, imagining their focus and determination on a dream that, for all they achieved, would never amount to more than notoriety in the eyes of most. This is not a condemnation of them or their "achievements", but a realistic account of what the fruit of their physical labours will have been. Now imagine all the sacrifices, all the energy and time spent upon this "great" work.
All the sitting down to coffee breaks. All the makeup. All the drives to work. All the early mornings. All the late nights. All the missed parties and school games and family holidays cut short. All the conversations that were about the latest film. Imagine that. Go through them all. Be the center of every party, ever dinner, many (most) being for work purposes with cast and production crew.
See how it feels to be constantly the center of everyone's universe, at least in your mind. See also how in reality, most of the people at that table are just asking because it is a topic of discussion. Empty words inspired purely because there is nothing more interesting to discuss within their mind and they don't know each other at the table well enough to feel comfortable on another, more intimate, topic. Thus Steve becomes the center of attention, day after day after day. "So, how's the new film coming Steve?". Feel how that goes, year after year. Notice how, after enough of this, you may realize what a trap it can become to live in. Notice how you may lose yourself to an idea of what you are, and other people to a similar idea. Notice how the shadow of a relationship forms with people, rather than genuine connection. How few moments in your life will thus be your own, and how many (most) will be about Steve Martin, the character. The celebrity and movie star, an idea in the mind. What you are you will never really know, because no one else wants to know and because your very living depends on your ability not to know it, but to pretend to be someone else.
Is this a bad thing? Not unless Steve is unaware of all these things happening around him, or what he may be missing in life. The point is, see how the forms and games we play in themselves hardly matter. See how it is that which is within us that really makes the difference. See how, when all is said and done, when all the drinking and eating and moving from place to place, scene to scene, set to set and street to street, all we are is shadow or light. Like a thin vapour of existence floating on the mist of this world. Do we stop to take note of those others floating by, or do we ever spiral into a hurricane of our own ego and delusion. Which are we, the good ripple that touches everyone, or the wave that blindly destroys, never noticing the dance around them.
I tell you now, those who spend a life in service of others will have riches far beyond that of any King of the dust. They will see people, and they will taste moments of truth. They will know how it feels to love, and they will know how it feels to love many, and they will know how it feels to become love, for their lives are service. When man comes to examine his life with absolute honesty, he will see that there was only ever one thing he wanted or needed, but the world had him pursuing something else because so few knew how to find it or where it comes from. Love is not an idea in the mind, but a feeling inside. It is the very energy of life. It IS live. Love, is what we are made from. Every man or woman that has ever suffered, has suffered from a lack of love. There is no pain a man cannot bear, if he has enough love. There is no treasure nor wine nor lustful desire or broken shadow of affection that can ever make up for what we lack in love, and yet there is an infinite and inexhaustible source. Love comes not from earthly material places or ideas in the mind. Love comes from above.