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You wouldn’t believe my luck, I found an easel for $29.99! A complete steal.

I said O.M.G I have been looking for an easel.

Then I said I need a TV for my easel. Next stop Walmart for a 32inch TV

Come back to it at a different time.

Every time I swear I’m having a good time something annoying happens to me.

My exes, ex now works at Amazon. I loved this side gig, now I’m contemplating quitting.

She had the nerve to ask me why I’m working here she thought I worked at x,y,z? First of all I left him 2yrs ago. Why are you still keeping up with me. Who told you where I work?..this only confirms that that my loser ex still keeps up with me and my life.

She then said I should say hi to her, I was like

Um we’re not friends, and I walked away.

She is the one who used to show up in my dreams attacking me, when he was sleeping with both of us. She had no respect for me or my relationship, neither did he. She made it clear she didn’t gaf.

She must have also forgotten that the last time we ran into each other she was pointing at me and laughing? Cause she thought she won something? We were never in competition. She was in a one sided competition with me.

Now she thinks I would greet her?

Comparing your beauty to that of other cultures/ backgrounds is extremely harmful to you.

The drive, the ambition, the vision, the grit, the energy.

They lack creativity, consistency, and effort.

People underestimate the amount of effort it takes to take an opportunity and make something out of it.

Two people can be given the same opportunity and one can spin it into gold while another will squander it. All while expecting things to fall into their lap. Then turn around and call the other person lucky.

Meanwhile they can have the same thing or more, if they focus on themselves instead of watching another person.

Yet, and still will feel entitled to your opportunities. Just plain old entitlement.

You must love yourself to be truly discerning of other people. You will never be able to see others clearly until you first see yourself clearly.

Discernment and intuition protects you from people, places and things that could and would be detrimental to you.

Even having one person around you who doesn’t mean you well, can block your blessings. Understand that they absolutely cannot be around you, while you are on your climb to success

Please, take the test seriously.

God, The Universe, The Heavens whatever it is that you subscribe to, is testing you, in one of the most difficult ways possible.

The question is…Who are you going to choose? You or them?

You will be rewarded or held back based on your choice. Especially if this person mistreats you in any way, form or fashion. Holding onto anything that isn’t for your greater good, will hold you back. In ways that you can’t even begin to imagine.

Your creativity is blocked, your blessings are held back, any good fortune or good karma that is supposed to be bestowed upon you will be held back. Even your mental, and physical stability can be held back.

Don’t think there isn’t an affect to holding onto people, places or things that don't serve you, and that don’t mean you well.

Choose YOU, pick YOU, value YOU.

You will be rewarded or delayed based on your choice so choose wisely.

You have an internal locus of control

You're an active participant in your life.

You put yourself, and your needs first, understanding that you can’t pour from an empty cup

You take accountability for your failures, mistakes, and short comings

You do nice things for yourself

You don't minimize yourself, or make yourself small

You listen to your inner voice, and let it be your guiding light.

You don’t allow or keep the wrong people around you

You don’t take impulsive actions, you think before you act.

You’re not overly vulnerable, or overly available

You don’t wear your heart on your sleeve, understanding that your love is valuable and should be guarded and protected.

You have goals, dreams, and aspirations, and you work towards them

You don’t let people play you more than once

You don’t live in fear

You don’t live in the past

You don’t play about yourself

The action part of loving yourself

If someone asks you to do something ,and you don’t want to you say no

If you're tired you rest.

If your sick, you are kind to yourself and focus on getting better

If you have anyone around you who is abusive, you cut them off

If you're at a job that you hate, you start looking for another job

If your in a bad relationship you leave it

If the universe presents you with kinda-sorta what you want, you decline it

If your unhappy with something or your circumstances you change it

If you make a promise to yourself you keep it

If you're unhappy with how things are going, you work at changing it

If you have a problem, you look for solutions

When things are moving slow or not happening. Things feel delayed or stagnant, just blocked.

Recognize that you’re being kept in a hangman state. You’re being called to change your perspective.

This is important because until you change your perspective you can’t change your behavior. At least not in the way that is needed to bring positive change into your life.

ASK YOURSELF SOME QUESTIONS

What beliefs am I holding onto that no longer serve me?

What beliefs have I upheld for a long period of time? Just ask yourself.

Am I holding onto people, places or things that I should have long ago released?

Generally it’s beliefs that have not served you in a positive way. You’ve just been holding onto them for so long.

I’ll give some examples.

Example 1

Say you’re a cheater. You cheat on all your partners, you’ve always cheated. You don’t see anything wrong with cheating. Except you don’t recognize or want to acknowledge that your cheating has had unfavorable results attached to it. Maybe you’ve lost out on potentially great partners or friendships.

So, you would need to change your belief system around this long held idea.

Move forward with the new belief and monitor and see how things change. Things should change, not immediately but over time. Let’s say 6months-1yr

Example 2

Say you watch Shera Seven and you have for many years, hardcore follower for 10+ years.

You believe that you will get a provider or rich husband, yet you’ve never actually come close to getting this said person.

So, your belief is actually keeping you from getting what you truly desire.

This belief hasn’t served you, and possibly has lead you to undesirable situations.

You would need to change your belief around this idea. That a rich husband will magically show up into your life because you go sit at bars, and scout men out.

Example 3

You have an older sibling, this older sibling has always put you down.

You know that you should cut this relationship off, but you feel guilty, and you feel like you could never actually get away from this sibling.

This is false.

You could get away from this sibling that projects their negative feelings onto you and bullies you.

You would need strength, fortitude and willpower to enforce your boundaries but it could be done. If you really want to do it.

These are just some general examples.

Most often we don’t recognize how something as small as a belief can have such a profound effect on life, and how it can limit us day-to-day.

Change doesn’t magically happen, you need to invoke change to improve your life.

If you don’t do anything differently today than you did yesterday or last week. You life is going to keep going in that same track.

You make change, and monitor.

See what the results of that decision to change something is bringing forth, all changes bring forth some kind of measurable result.

A reminder, you will be tested by the universe or God, to see if you’re serious and you really mean it. If you fall back, and mess up. You will just be delayed is all, the chance to rectify will come again in the future.

Hi, Salli Richardson as Angela

When you come across people, you’re not supposed to let them tell you who you are.

In personal, professional, academic or otherwise.

If they attempt to do so, you correct them, and you tell them who you are

This person doesn’t know you, they haven’t lived your life. They haven’t had your experiences.

You should know yourself better than anyone else. And if you don’t know who you are, you better start learning.

Anyone with a strong sense of self will let you tell them who you are.

It’s those who are weak, controlling and confused who don’t even know themselves that are first to tell you who you are.