In the seconds between sound and light.

I keep using my girlfriend with unusual work hours to get out of coworker interactions and happy hours and hanging out.

I like that people have two reactions to this post.

Apparently you can’t solicit a date as a “gig”

when u make new friends and u don't know how to act around them yet

Washing a Brick its a guy thing lol

i really like looking at google image searches for “firemen rescuing cats” or something because you get super cute pictures like

Don’t have spoons for long explanation - also this is only speaking for christianity - but religion has been a force of oppression for women, people of color, and lgbt+ people and the rejection of the religion is often coupled with the rejection of how religion treats them.

Women, PoC, Queer people, immigrants, trauma survivors, etc:  How can I believe in something that teaches you to be cruel?  How can I trust the books that tell me of peace and love, when you use your faith to hurt me?  How can a loving god allow [insert injustice of the day]?

It really, really becomes obvious when you start trying to talk about feminism and racism with them too. Because see how rationally they act in the face of the research when you suggest they should change how they behave or think even slightly.