a lot has happened. our baby got really sick, and we ended up taking him to the vet on New Year’s Eve and walked out empty handed. it was so hard to watch j get so deeply attached to a cat he swore he didn’t care about, and then be left bereft.
we’re fostering a kitty right now tho, and as much as he calls her sassy and spoiled, i have a feeling she’s gonna be a foster fail.
we went to japan, endured a horrific car accident, started hot yoga together, been to/will have gone to six weddings from Nov 2024-Feb 2026 (of which we were in half!!), lost some friends, made some really good friends, traveled nationally, and cried. oh also, we got engaged ✨
life is good, like really good. it’s still a little scary, what with work being a toss up in either direction right now, but i wouldn’t trade what we have built together for the world.




















