Karmic partners, soulmates, and twinflames: today let's talk karmic partners.
Karmic partners are people whom you have chosen to incarnate with over and over that push you to your limits. They are the bain to your existence, they are toxic, and often angry and abusive... yet for one reason or another, you are tied to one another. There is no escape.
My daughter's father is mine. 5 years ago we made a beautiful baby girl. We were happy for a time, but it was short lived. He became angry and emotionally abusive. He did everything he could to strip me of any confidence or magick within me, attempting to make me a shell of a person. I started to believe all of the awful things he would tell me daily.. the most common was that no one but him would ever love me, that I was too fucked up to be loved.
The abuse started small and turned into a daily occurrence and often in front of our daughter. I could not allow her to think that this was functional, that this was love. With complete dependence on him (as he liked it), no job, no car... I packed 2 suitcases, called a family member and left. The next day I returned home because spirit strongly directed me to, and there I found him with another woman. That was the end of any contemplation of returning. (Thanks for that spirit!)
This man has pushed me in every way one could imagine. The stronger my boundaries became, the more he pushed. The calmer I became, the angrier he got. I became the villain in his backwards world because he could no longer control me and it is always easier to blame someone else for your hardships then to take any responsibility for your own bad karma. But that's OK.
I had a vision not long after I had left him, he and I were sitting in a beautiful white room looking at our life plans and deciding where we would meet and the many circumstances within our lives together. He decided to make a sacrifice, our relationship and all of it's gorey details would relinquish me from all the bad karma from my younger days and place it onto him. Catapulting my life, my growth, and my mission.
For this I am grateful. So in those moments of strife between us, when I am being pushed to not react to his narcissistic nonsense.. I remind myself of that vision. For better or worse, we are joined by this child and as a result, I am a better person.
I share this story because I am not alone in this. My story belongs to many, and once you understand the nature of these relationships they become easier to navigate.
Don't let them suck you in, you are being pushed to rise above.. whether graceful or not you have the ability to soar, never forget that.


















