You mentioned Carol's background never being mentioned. So what do you think her family dynamic was. Do you think she had siblings? Was she raised in a divorced family? Thinks like that.
I have so much to say đ but Iâll confine this post to the three verbal references to Carolâs family in the flagship show. Theyâre all from Angela Kangâs run and will give us a idea of the discussion inside her writersâ room and the direction they were taking Carol in.
Everything has to serve a purpose:
Thereâs a need for word economy in screenwriting because a lot of different elements have to fit into a one-hour episode, especially so on an action heavy show. All dialogue has to service the story/character arcs. Cutting for time messes with continuity, pacing and the build of narrative tension, so the writers choose the charactersâ words with purpose.
Because the camera is an observerâthe audience isnât inside the protagonistâs head, like in a novelâword choice and phrasing become very important. How a character says something matters. The director and actors will base their interpretation on it, so thereâs no such thing as a throwaway line in a script.
Letâs look at the dialogue which introduces Carolâs parents and her grandmother to the viewers:
CAROLâS GRANDMA âFind Meâ (1018)
Whatâs significant in this beat?
Carolâs grandmother had a sewing machine that she put to good use, which tells us that she was practical, handy and self-sufficient. Like Carol.
She made Carolâs clothes, so the family didnât have much money. The line also implies that she was heavily involved in Carolâs upbringing. It couldâve been a multi-generational household, but she could equally well have been her granddaughterâs primary caregiver.
Having Carol help her and the way in which she did so tells the audience that the two had a good relationship. She enjoyed Carolâs company, she was teaching her things in a playful way and she focused on positive reinforcement in order to get her grandchild to follow directions.
Key takeaway: she might very well be the reason for Carolâs resilience and capacity to love.
CAROLâS MOTHER âNew Hauntsâ (1110)
This line is really interesting. Why does she say âalwaysâ? If her mother actively raised her to pay attention to details, Carol wouldâve just said, âmy mother taught me...â The line implies that it was her motherâs behavior in general that showed Carol the value of being alert. There are two primary ways in which that could be viewed: either Carolâs mother had bad things happen to her because she wasnât âobservant,â or she was unkind to Carol when she wasnât perceptive enough for her motherâs liking.
It's quite possible that Carolâs dad used to beat her mom. The context of the scene with this line is about making a manâs life easier, but the phrasing does suggest that Carol herself mightâve been verbally or physically abused by her mother. Theyâre not mutually exclusive possibilities, but they both raise an interesting similarity between Carol and Daryl. Did she see him so clearly, right from the start, because she too had been an unwanted, inconvenient child? We donât know what Carol's relationship to domestic violence was prior to Ed or how dysfunctional her home environment was.
CAROLâS FATHER âTrustâ (1115)
Generally, a woman who enjoys a close relationship with her father, will not refer to him as her âold man.â Especially not if sheâs from the Deep South. Heâll be âdadâ or âdaddyâ to her if they had a loving relationship (like Maggie and Beth with Hershel) or more neutrally, when mentioned to a third party, âmy father.â âMy old manâ implies emotional distance, especially with how itâs paired here with a negative assessment. In what context would he have said this? Itâs habitual (used to) and Carolâs delivery suggests sheâs been the one on the receiving end of that piece of parental âwisdom.â (Compare it to how her grandmother managed her when she was a child.)
It's likely that her fatherâs life experiences had made him pessimistic. Carolâs parents were young during an era of enormous social change and uncertainty. Depending on his age and exact circumstances, he could even have been subjected to the draft and have served in Vietnam.
In my opinion, itâs relatively safe to say that her parents didnât have a positive influence on Carol. If a child is constantly told that she shouldnât have any expectations for a happy outcome and if she has to remain hyper vigilant to protect herself, emotionally or physically, it teaches her that sheâs unworthy of consideration or emotional support. Carolâs low self-esteem had its origin long before Ed showed up to make her life worse.
I have a few different scenarios in mind for Carolâs early family dynamics, which could provide some interesting storylines to explore for the character. But to answer your specific questions, I think Carol was an only child for a number of reasons (which I wonât get into here because of the length of this post) and while I donât think her parents were divorced, itâs possible that they were never married in the first place. (That would also open up the potential for some very intriguing story choices, while shading what we already know about Carol's intimate relationships.) Iâd say theirs wasnât a happy marriage and like Lydia and Sophia (and Daryl!), Carol didnât have a happy childhood.