Seamless Sundance

if nothing else, live for that chance to have your own home garden, to watch the butterflies drink sweet nectar from your flowers, to feel found in a space of your own

Placing misogyny as an inherent trait of men/masculinity is just another form of "boys will be boys" btw. You cannot ever meaningfully hold misogynists accountable if you treat it as an inherent trait of their identify and not bigotry they are willfully perpetuating.

so I got into grad school today with my shitty 2.8 gpa and the moral of the story is reblog those good luck posts for the love of god

i need all the help i can get for finals

Reblogging to spread the luck and the good fortune

imagine falling in love and it works out for the rest of your life

i love you mango i love you peaches i love you raspberries i love you strawberries i love you pineapple

“you dreamed of me?” “no, i thought of you” is just literally insane. it throws everything out the window. the yearning, the hoping, the wishing. it’s about loving someone on PURPOSE. loving someone INTENTIONALLY. 

you are never truly alone. i’m here with you every step of the way. when you feel your world is falling apart, i hope you trust that you will be okay. you are being taken care of. you will make it. things are aligning for you. you’re no longer being held down by the stress and worry of what could've been, what is, or what isn't. when you feel like you can't find your way, trust that if you made it through then, you will get through this too. everything that you've gone through is positioning you to be the healed version of you. you’re just becoming.

“what if kids identify with something and it ends up just being a phase-?” good. stop teaching and expecting kids (and adults honestly) to formulate permanent traits and ideas of themselves. everything in life is a phase. that doesn’t make it any less legitimate while you experience it. let people explore themselves and know it’s okay if what you think about yourself changes.

don’t be scared to live lovingly. compliment your friends on the little things and cheer for live bands in small cafes and leave tips when you can. tell the person you saw that you really like their shirt and write cards and letters to the people you love. make playlists for people and don’t be afraid to express your appreciation for others. life is so much better when you live it with love.

The more you're struggling, the kinder I need you to be to yourself. It's going to make it unbelievably harder and more painful for you if you're beating yourself up for what you can't do right now, or blaming and hating yourself for all the ways that your struggle is inconveniencing your life.