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Aries Risings: With Libra as your DC, it is very possible to have attachment issues to your partner, you may actually be the one who stays even when the scales are unbalanced and when there is not and equal give and take in the relationship, there could be people pleasing tendencies around your partner in the sense like everybody could tell you your damn amazing but you would still probably want that validation from your partner. There can be a tendency of wanting to show the best all the time and this can potentially lead to unauthenticity in your relationships, there is a need to embrace your imperfections, and if your partner does not value you for who you really are, it is the time to leave! Attachment style: Anxious

Taurus Risings: With Scorpio as your DC, its very possible that you become very protective, and almost a little too observant of your partner. There can be a tendency to over analyze things, wanting to read between the lines and shutting down instead of communicating or probably becoming extremely intense when things probably could have been somewhat lighter and easier to communicate. There is intense feelings, and sometimes it can become hard to move on from your partner even when you know you should, you could actually become destructive and fall into a mental hole. There is a need to heal the attachment styles and love from the possibility of loss. Nothing is eternal, afterall. Attachment style: Anxious

Gemini Risings: With Sagittarius as your DC, it usually happens that you see things with too much hope, rose coloured glasses until....those fall out themselves because it suddenly is not exciting anymore. It is possible that you feel the need of something needing to "happen" in the relationship for you to be able to feel its working when its absolutely not like that. Learn to embrace the little things, the silence in the relationship, that is what those moments are about after all. There is indeed a need to slow down, you could be someone who runs away from deeper feelings and prefers to keep things "light" or at the extreme opposite, become extremely philosophical and look things in somewhat unrealistic manner. Attachment style: Avoidant

Cancer Risings: With Capricorn as your DC, it again tells me you could be someone who measures their worth to what they can provide for their partner and even vice versa most times. Relationships are transactional indeed, but they are not transactional to extreme details. It is important to understand that you do not need to go beyond your capacity for someone and neither expect someone for the same either. You are supposed to love and be loved without having to worry about if you are "giving" or "receiving" enough. You could again be someone who does not want to appear weak or submissive, you most probably want to be "clean" but this is not how things are in love, they do get messy but eventually sort themselves. There is a need to work on your emotional capacity. Attachment style: Anxious-Avoidant, Disorganized

Leo Risings: With Aquarius as your DC, it could be that not everything seems deep enough and you may struggle to find meaning, and connection with your partner and your relationship. You may be attracted to partners who are different, and new, and amazing but you, yourself could have problems in accepting that uniqueness sometimes, because more that you want "fun" people, there is a desire for your relationship to be socially acceptable, to be able for others to admire your partner, as much as you admire them and this can again be fatal, for your partner is for you, and not for other people at all! It is yet again possible to probably go back and forth between being sure, and often times this can send a bad signal to your partner. Attachment style: Avoidant

Virgo Risings: Women I have seen with this placement are often "bob the builders" and would do anything to "repair" their partners and relationships until, they have had enough. Then they do not care, and that is because their is an emotional detachment that transcends everything. Anyways, with a Pisces DC, you could actually "fail" to see your partner for who they really are, being in delusion or misconception, and often times being extremely emotionally attached, to a point that your partner may keep hurting you and you may try to heal them. There is a need to "break" cycles and be brave, know and be aware what a powerful person you are, and this amount of unconditional love is not deserving of everybody. At the same time, you could be extremely sensitive in the sense of being really hard to pin down and understand. You could want things to be understood, without making them obvious, without stating them and that can be an issue. There is a need to work on seeing things with clarity and for what they are actually making you feel like at the moment and not in past and future. Attachment style: Anxious

Libra Rising: With Aries DC, it is possible that you are extremely fiery, passionate and extremely in love with your partner, but that energy can wear off very soon since it could very well run out, or become inconsistent, especially based on your moods and feelings. It is important to love your partner all the time and through all your moods and feelings, it is possible that you give someone the reputation of being a "love bomber" though this might not be so at all (not that love bomber insta reels song playing in my head lmfao) It is possible that you look for "I" in a "we" when in a relationship. This is ofc super subjective and there would be different scenarios, but little things like, "I got hurt in the fight we had" and failing to see that the other person suffered equally. There is a need to slow down, since you may really not attach yourself "too much" because you may feel its going to end anyway. There is a need to heal that, you need to show up and be honest and consistent to your partner through all, to be able to expect the same reciprocation you seek. Attachment style: Avoidant.

Scorpio Rising: With Taurus as your DC, it is very possible that you become somewhat "territorial" over your partner. While that may be out of pure love and innocence of losing them, or wanting to keep them all to yourselves, it can feel isolating and probably even manipulative to your partner. Not only that, it makes you become extremely emotionally clingy or attached to your partner when that is not really a good idea, since this gives your partner the power to manipulate or even use you to their will. You maybe someone who believes in concept of "investment" of their time and energy so its not possible to leave, and maybe also because you saw forever with this person and you wanna stay with them through all times, but its important to understand when your partner is going through a rough time and when he is instead giving your relationship a tough time. Be willing to leave when necessary, do not stay stuck just because. Attachment style: Anxious

Sagittarius Rising: With Gemini as your DC, you are very likely to be someone who catches feelings over "words" and normal flirts lmao. Anyways, it is yet again important to not fixate over what someone "promised" or what they "preached or said". It is also important to understand that what you are having right now, is right since you could pretty much always be unsatisfied, and in thoughts of "did I do the right thing or could I do better" even if you might be madly in love with your partner and this could yet again lead you in acting out of ways that would signal your partner this same thing, even though you may not really mean it. So all in all, make a strong and brave decision before commitment, and do not always be in your head about things. Also, PLEASE find people who are good communicators, since y'all are very good at speaking but its important to be heard. Attachment style: Anxious-Avoidant

Capricorn Rising: With Cancer as your DC, its very possible for you to find "home" in your partner. You may be someone who thinks "I choose very wisely so I can hardly be wrong" and this is where things can get wrong. You are very loving and nurturing to your partner and may want to give them the world, but it is important not to have your head stuck into the past all the time, and who they were in the beginning. At the same time its possible that when it is the time to communicate something, you may retreat in a shell and refuse to address the elephant in the room, or try to state things in a way that may seem devoid of actual emotions somehow, even though it may not be the intention. There can be a tendency to chase, or to cling to your partner, to want them probably all the time you feel you need them, and while that is how it should be, sometimes its necessary to understand and respect their commitments. It could also be hard for you to be emotionally understood and to actually open up to your partner. You could also be someone who believes in "chance" system as in "I give only 4 chances" and so on, but its important to understand that the relationship would always teach you, and you need to forgive and seek forgiveness throughout for its never ending. But of course, unforgivable things like cheating or manipulation or hitting should not be forgiven even if its for the first time, Do not trust your chance system but trust your gut. Attachment style: Anxious-Avoidant

Aquarius Rising: With Leo as your DC, you again could be someone who seeks a lot of validation and appreciation from their partner. While we all seek validation from people we love, making it center of your universe can be a problem, especially when you find that your partner does not agree or believe in something like you. Your self worth should not be attached to your partner. It is also possible for you to grow insecure when your partner probably is enjoying themselves, shining and rising. While this should not be out of jealousy for the most parts, but a fear that your partner may "outgrow" you and would not need you no more. It is important to trust yourself and understand that the value you bring to your partner cannot be replaced by a few compliments. You may also have some egoic programming, as if your partner is able to strike some cords in your brain, but this again demands release since you are putting them in power and on a pedestal. Attachment style: Anxious-Avoidant.

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disclaimer: i already know this topic might get people talking 😭. having a certain Mercury sign does not automatically make someone dishonest. everyone lies sometimes, whether it’s to protect themselves, avoid conflict, hide vulnerability or simply make a story more interesting. this is about the patterns and motivations i’ve noticed behind how different Mercury placements can avoid, change or soften the truth. aspects to Mercury and the whole chart matter too.

✧ Mercury in Aries

i’ve noticed Aries Mercury usually lies when they feel cornered or put on the spot. their mind moves so quickly that sometimes they answer before they’ve even fully decided what the truth is. it’s less about creating a detailed plan and more about reacting in the moment. they can accidentally talk themselves out of situations because they’re quick with words and naturally know how to defend themselves. the funny thing is, they might come back later and admit the truth because their first instinct was just to escape the awkwardness of the moment.

✧ Mercury in Taurus

Taurus Mercury tends to lie when the truth would disrupt their sense of stability. these people usually don’t like unnecessary drama, sudden changes or having to completely rethink something they’ve already settled in their mind. i’ve noticed they can hold onto their version of events very strongly because they process things slowly and once they’ve decided something, they’re comfortable there. sometimes the lie isn’t even about hiding something big, it’s more about avoiding a conversation that would force them into uncomfortable change.

✧ Mercury in Gemini

this one is always going to get people arguing because Gemini Mercury has the reputation 😭. but what i’ve noticed is that their relationship with the truth is complicated because their mind is constantly adapting. they can tell the same story differently depending on who they’re speaking to because they naturally adjust their communication style. sometimes they exaggerate because they’re focused on making the story entertaining, sometimes they add details because their imagination is already running. they’re not always lying to manipulate, sometimes they’re just mentally moving faster than the facts.

✧ Mercury in Cancer

Cancer Mercury usually lies from an emotional place. these people can be extremely protective over their feelings, memories and personal life, so if they don’t feel safe, they might hide parts of the truth. i’ve noticed they can say “i’m fine” while internally feeling the complete opposite because they don’t want to burden people or create emotional tension. their lies are often connected to protecting themselves or protecting someone they care about. they usually don’t want to hurt people, but sometimes avoiding the truth creates more confusion later.

✧ Mercury in Leo

Leo Mercury tends to lie when their pride is involved. these people usually care about how they are perceived, and admitting they were wrong, embarrassed or unsuccessful can feel much harder than they let on. i’ve noticed they can sometimes edit stories to make themselves seem more confident, more impressive or more in control. it’s not always arrogance, sometimes it comes from not wanting people to see the parts of themselves they feel insecure about. they want to be respected.

✧ Mercury in Virgo

Virgo Mercury is interesting because they usually don’t think of themselves as someone who lies. their style is often more selective truth. they can focus on the details they believe are relevant and leave out the part they think doesn’t matter. the thing is, that missing detail can sometimes completely change how someone understands the situation. because Virgo Mercury is so analytical, they can usually explain their reasoning very convincingly. they’re often not thinking “i’m lying”, they’re thinking “i’m being precise.”

✧ Mercury in Libra

Libra Mercury is one of the biggest “peacekeeping” placements. i’ve noticed these people often soften the truth because they don’t like seeing people upset or creating unnecessary conflict. they might agree just to avoid an argument, tell someone something is okay when it actually bothered them, or avoid mentioning something because they don’t want to ruin the atmosphere. their intention is usually harmony, but the problem is people can end up not knowing what they genuinely think or feel.

✧ Mercury in Scorpio

Scorpio Mercury usually doesn’t lie in the obvious way. they’re more likely to control information. these people naturally understand the power of knowing something that other people don’t, so they can be very selective about what they reveal. i’ve noticed they can answer a question honestly while still leaving out the one detail that would completely change the story. they don’t always see this as dishonesty either. sometimes their mindset is simply “not everyone needs access to everything about me.”

✧ Mercury in Sagittarius

Sagittarius Mercury usually lies through exaggeration more than anything else. these people love stories, meaning and making experiences memorable, so a normal situation can become much bigger and more dramatic when they retell it. they focus on the overall feeling of the story rather than making sure every tiny detail is completely accurate. sometimes they’re not trying to deceive anyone, they’re just naturally adding colour because that’s how their mind communicates.

✧ Mercury in Capricorn

Capricorn Mercury tends to lie when their reputation or competence feels threatened. these people usually want to appear capable, reliable and in control, so they may hide mistakes, downplay struggles or avoid admitting when something affected them. i’ve noticed they can be very careful with what information they give people because they understand how words can affect how others view them. they don’t usually reveal everything until they trust the person.

✧ Mercury in Aquarius

Aquarius Mercury is interesting because their lies are often connected to privacy and feeling misunderstood. these people can sometimes think “there’s no point explaining this because they won’t understand anyway.” they might give unusual answers, keep certain thoughts private or purposely avoid being predictable. their relationship with honesty can be very independent because they don’t always believe everyone is entitled to every part of their thinking.

✧ Mercury in Pisces

Pisces Mercury is probably one of the most complicated placements for this topic because sometimes they genuinely experience reality through emotion first. they can remember how something felt more strongly than the exact facts of what happened. when they avoid the truth, it’s usually because reality feels too harsh, disappointing or emotionally difficult to deal with. they may soften situations, protect someone’s feelings or hold onto an ideal version of something because it feels safer.

Aries moons, yes you feel a lot and we understand you, but you don’t need to let it out on others if they can’t match your enthusiasm, it’s okay to feel differently.

Taurus moons, stop trying to seek out emotional stability if you’re not ready to match a stable environment (yet).

Gemini moons, for a mercurial moon sign y‘all really don’t communicate emotions well, unless it’s the last straw to safe a friendship/relationship.

Cancer moons, it’s okay to let go of your ideas of a perfectly established family and embrace a tricky situation.

Leo moons, not every criticism that’s directed towards you is an issue you have to take to heart.

Virgo moons, it’s not necessary to always communicate your distrust towards others and let them feel that.

Libra moons, minimizing the mistakes you made by trying to sugarcoat situations wont make it easier on the ones around you.

Scorpio moons, you don’t need to set up taboo topics for your most trusted people, it’s okay to talk about things that are difficult.

Sagittarius moons, getting outside or even leaving the country won’t make your home life easier, it might make things even more complex.

Capricorn moons, it’s alright to open up and share things about yourself, even if they’re just superficial, not everything is top secret.

Aquarius moons, your family issues won’t disappear if the only one you discuss them with is your best friend.

The rising sign in your moon persona charts indicates the overall energy of someone's subconscious and inner nature

Where your natal moon falls in the moon persona chart is where your moon processes all the emotionall nature of the native acts like the heart of the entire body, where it feels the most comfortable

If your moon sign repeats in the moon person chart, that indicates the native has a very core lesson involving that sign

Pluto in the 1st house in the Moon Persona Chart is told to be an all consuming energy &emotionally, they feel things more personally than others

The 4th house in the moon persona chart tells us where we feel the most safe, secure, and our most private environment ex Taurus in the 4th house might see food as a comfort thing

Moon in the 8th house in the moon p.c indicates the soul craves for deep relationships in the native's life, every relationship has a deep impact on their subconscious

Pluto conjuncting Moon in this persona chart can indicate their raw emotional nature, may be triggered from emotional manipulation, they let the world see their raw side of nature

Saturn square/opposite the Moon can indicate a struggle to connect with certian men, (relatives, friends, relationship wise) they'll look for someone resembling their father

Pisces Moon/Moon in the 12th house can indicate the native might be an empath, full of kindness, protective, but tends to isolate from love even though they crave it deeply

Moon in the 1st house tells us the native is very comfortable with being themselves, they're shining, radiant personality, easily likeable

Chiron in Capricorn tells us the native 9/10 times blames themselves when something goes wrong, they're very afraid of failing or being seen as not being enough

Chiron in Aquarius tells us the native might isolate themselves when life feels to heavy, when it feels like they just want to become invisible, being alone gives them clarity

Lilith trine/sextile Moon tells us the native is aware of their feelings and everyone's in the room feelings, turns to be very needy of people

South Node in the 12th house is spot in persona charts where the native tries to escape reality, playing the spiritual martyr

Venus conjuct Chiron tendency of getting hurt, rejected by those you care about, fear of being unlovable or disliked

Jupiter in the 12th house, being heavy on emotions and is hard to tell people what you feel, being protected from things you don't always see, spirituality makes them attractive

Jupiter in the 11th house, feeling the best around the people they know & love, usually this indicates the native has a secure and supportive group of people

Mars in the 6th house, being easily drained mentally, in heavy crowds, being annoyed from work, anxious around health and needs to keep themselves busy

Mars in the 10th house in the moon persona chart can indicate they tend to be vulnerable and hide it from others, depending on the sign, they hate to show their "sensitive" side, people expect a lot from them

Lilith in the 2nd house rebellious native, fear of being judged or perceived the wrong way, can help with self worth and has a guilty pleasure involving money

Uranus in the 10th house hates to be restricted, hates having too much on their head and sometimes it can indicate emotional disruption due to being too focused on other stuff than their emotional being

Uranus aspecting Venus in the Moon P.C indicates the native has a unique way of nurturing, loving, appreciating something

Sun in the 1st house, central power, the native craves to be visible, can indicate a healthy ego in the moon p.c they don't really hide themselves and are being real with everyone

Pluto conj Sun can attract others obsession and interest in them, people who try to slide in their inner world, magnetic person

Mercury in the 5th house a very big need for self expression, let the world see you let the world feel you and let the world appreciate you, they love being validated

Sun in the 3rd house, loves to compete with others, intelligent but likes to ragebait, might sound too judgemental when they're irritated

Moon in the 11th house, there is no bigger placement telling you that you belong more than this, they the soul of whatever crowd they're in, hates to argue with their friends

Saturn in the 9th house, Saturn in this house ironically tells us the native has a complex inner nature when it comes to their beliefs, they could have been told too much from others, their soul will always crave for inner and physical peace

Saturn in the 5th house in the moon persona chart tells us the native is guarded around their emotions and feelings, they can get physically upset if something doesn't go their way, Saturn in the 5th house trains their patience

Mercury square/opposite Moon their soul gets exhausted when meeting dry/cold people, they're tired of being misunderstood, anxiety about what others think of them

Mars trine Jupiter, manifesting as someone with a big drive for life and excitement, they always want to do something, helps with gaining confidence

Venus in the 7th house might show that for the soul, some of the ultimate purposes in life can be relationships, marriages, partner

North Node aspecting Saturn, can indicate that when life feels to heavy they tend to to question their existence, especially their life path which can have many challenges, needs resilience

Neptune - Moon aspects, their core system revolves around boundaries and promises, if they trust you...it will be only for once

Ascendant trine/sextile/conj Chiron, nurturing energy, they can heal ppl even though nobody will be there to heal them, the person can be sacrificial but learns to heal and forgive

Saturn in the 12th house in the Moon Persona chart tells us the native is very guarded emotionally, like they simply just won't let anyone to be in their presence

Moon in Capricorn. If you have Moon there it means the inner nature of the native relies on strength and their nature is more sensitive to the environment they grew up in

North Node in the 5th house can indicate the inner core of the moon is to have fun, they get bored fast if nothing interesting happens, craves for connection

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Tarot: Seven of Cups, Ace of Pentacles, The Empress Oracle: Victory, Appreciation, Blossoming Abundance

Pile One is actually such a sweet pile, but in a very different way than I expected.

The first thing that caught my attention here is that there is a very strong theme of imagination around love. I think you may have spent a lot of time wondering what your person would be like, what your relationship would look like, or even creating little scenarios in your head about the kind of connection you wanted to have one day. And honestly? I don't think there is anything wrong with that. Sometimes people make it seem like having dreams about love means you are being unrealistic, but I don't always see it that way. Sometimes those little daydreams are just your heart trying to understand what it wants. The feeling of being chosen. The feeling of being cared for. The feeling of having someone who feels like a safe place instead of another thing you have to figure out.

But the interesting part about this pile is that it doesn't stay in that "dreamy space".

Because there is a difference between imagining love and actually experiencing it. You can have a picture in your mind of how something should feel, but then someone comes along and shows you a version you never even considered before. I think this connection might surprise you because it may not look exactly like the fantasy you created(which is not a bad thing at all). Maybe you imagined a certain type of person, a certain kind of romance, or a relationship that would feel a specific way. But what arrives could be much more grounded. Less about constant excitement and more about feeling comfortable enough to breathe.

And honestly, I love the Ace of Pentacles here because it gives this whole pile something solid. It’s like the moment where you stop asking, "Is this ever going to happen?" and start realizing, "Wait... I am actually living it."

There is something very refreshing about a love that doesn't only exist in words. Someone saying they care is beautiful, but someone showing it through their actions changes everything. Remembering small details. Making time for you. Wanting to include you in their life. Creating something together instead of just talking about what could happen. The Empress adds such a beautiful layer because this isn't just about receiving love from another person. It also talks about how you feel within yourself when you are loved properly. I think this connection brings out a softer side of you. The side that doesn't always feel like it has to be strong, independent, or constantly doing something to earn your place. There is a sense of being able to relax and simply exist around someone. Like... you don't have to be the most interesting person in the room. You don't have to always have something impressive to offer. You don't have to wonder if you are too much or not enough.

You are just you, and someone genuinely enjoys that.

The Appreciation card really stood out because I think this relationship would have a lot of those small moments that other people might overlook. Looking at each other after a random conversation and smiling. Feeling grateful for little routines you create together. Realizing that happiness doesn't always come from huge romantic gestures. Sometimes it is the ordinary things that make you think, "I actually love my life right now." The Blossoming Abundance card also makes me think about something that grows slowly. Not everything has to happen overnight. Some relationships become beautiful because two people keep showing up, keep learning each other, and keep choosing to nurture what they have. The only thing I would keep in mind with this pile is not comparing your real love story to the perfect version you have imagined in your head. Because sometimes we wait for something to feel like a movie scene, but we miss the quiet moments that are actually showing us we are loved.

This pile reminds me of someone learning that love doesn't always have to be complicated to be meaningful. It can be exciting and peaceful at the same time. It can still give you butterflies while also making you feel safe. And maybe that is the part that surprises you the most-realizing that the love you hoped for doesn't have to take away your peace to prove that it is real.

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Tarot: Six of Cups, The Chariot, Four of Swords Oracle: Blossoming Abundance, Cornucopia, Walking Away

Hmm... okay, this pile made me pause for a second because I don't think your lavender haze begins when you meet this person. I think it begins when you finally stop carrying things that were never meant to come with you.

Some of you have been holding onto old stories about love for much longer than you realise. Maybe it was a past relationship. Maybe it was someone you never got over. (Interestingly, I kept hearing the song The One That Got Away " by Katy Perry here.)m Maybe it wasn't even a person. It could have been disappointment, fear, or this quiet belief that love always comes with stress. Whatever it is, it has been taking up space.

And then this connection comes in.

The funny thing is, I don't think this person is trying to save you or fix your life. They're just... different. Being around them feels calmer. You don't feel like you're constantly trying to decode mixed signals or wonder where you stand. There isn't this pressure to make everything perfect all the time. It's almost like your nervous system gets a chance to rest. I actually smiled when I saw the Six of Cups because this relationship has such a comfortable quality to it. Not boring. Comfortable. There's a difference. You know those people who somehow make you feel like you've known them forever, even when you haven't? That's what this reminds me of. You don't have to rehearse conversations before talking to them. You don't have to act cooler than you are. You can laugh too loudly, tell them the dumb story you've already told three times, and somehow they still look at you like they're happy you're there.

BUT here's the thing...

I don't think this kind of love enters your life until you make peace with what you're leaving behind. And I don't mean that in a dramatic way. I mean, finally reaching that point where you stop checking whether someone from your past has changed. You stop comparing every new person to an old experience. You stop carrying on conversations that ended years ago. At some point, you just wake up and think, "I'm tired of living back there."

That's when everything starts moving. There is a really beautiful balance in this relationship because both of you seem to understand that love isn't only about excitement. It's also about peace. It's knowing you don't have to earn someone's attention every single day. It's having disagreements without immediately thinking that everything is over. It's feeling safe enough to rest, knowing the relationship will still be there tomorrow.

And honestly... I think that's your lavender haze.

Not shutting the world out completely, but choosing not to let the past have a seat at the table anymore. Once you stop giving yesterday so much power, you finally have room to enjoy what's in front of you. That's where the abundance comes in. Not because your life suddenly becomes perfect, but because your heart isn't split between what was and what could be anymore. You get to be present. And I think that's something this relationship teaches you every single day without even trying.

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Tarot: King of Swords, Judgement, Knight of Swords Oracle: Financial Constraints, Woman Holding a Heart, Action, Door to Spirit (additional oracle card that jumped from the deck)

Okay... first of all, can we just acknowledge what happened while I was shuffling? 😭

This is the only pile that decided it wanted an extra message. Two cards literally fell onto the floor, and I always pay attention when that happens because it usually means there is something that really wants to be said with Huge speed. So yes... everyone else got three oracle cards. You guys got four. Make of that what you will. 😂

Now, getting into the reading...

I don't know why, but this pile immediately gave me the impression of two people who are very aware of what they want. Not in an arrogant way. More like... they've reached a point where they're tired of wasting time. I actually wouldn't be surprised if one or both of you have reached that stage in life where you're done entertaining connections that don't really go anywhere. The talking stage that lasts six months with no commitment? No thanks. Mixed signals? Also, no thanks. This pile has such a direct energy to it that I almost laughed.Someone here likes clarity. Actually... both of you probably do.

What's interesting, though, is that underneath all that confidence, I think there is someone with a really soft heart. That's why I love seeing the Woman Holding a Heart in the middle of all these very action-oriented cards. It's almost like saying, "Yes, I know exactly what I want... but I also love deeply." And I think people misunderstand you because of that. Some people might see you or this person as emotionally distant simply because you don't wear your heart on your sleeve. But once someone earns your trust... It's a completely different story.There is another theme that kept coming back while I was looking at these cards.

Timing.

I don't think this relationship happens when either of you are still figuring yourselves out. It almost feels like life asks both of you to become very clear about who you are first. What do you want? What you're willing to accept. What you're absolutely not willing to accept anymore.Only then do your paths cross. And honestly? I kind of like that. Because not every love story has to begin at nineteen. Not every relationship has to grow through confusion. Some people meet after they've already learned a few hard lessons, and that's exactly why the relationship works.

The Financial Constraints card caught my attention too, but I don't immediately think it's talking about money. For some of you, yes, finances could genuinely be part of your story. Maybe one of you is focused on building stability before committing to a relationship, or maybe you meet during a time when money feels a little tight. That's definitely possible. But for a lot of you, this card reminds me of emotional scarcity. Almost like someone grew up believing they always had to earn love. Earn attention, affection, and reassurance.So when someone comes into their life and simply... loves them... there's this moment of, "Wait... that's it? I don't have to prove myself first?"

That's a much bigger adjustment than people realise.

The Door to Spirit being the extra card, honestly, doesn't surprise me at all. If anything, it explains why this pile insisted on an additional message. This relationship changes something much deeper than your relationship status because I see it changing the way you trust your own intuition...the way you look at love and the way you see yourself. There is a sense that meeting this person opens a door you didn't even know existed. You become more aware of yourself. More honest with yourself. More willing to listen to that quiet voice inside instead of everyone else's opinions.

And then there is Action...

😂 Yeah... this pile doesn't know how to sit still.

I don't think this relationship spends years dancing around feelings. Once both people know what they want, things actually move. Conversations happen instantly. Decisions get made on the spot and then bamm!!! Plans are made. There isn't this endless cycle of "What are we?" because somebody here eventually says, "I'd rather have an answer than keep guessing." And you know what? Good.

Because the lavender haze for this pile isn't built on uncertainty.It's built on knowing exactly who you're walking beside.I think that's what makes this relationship feel so safe. Just Not because it's perfect. But because neither of you is afraid to move forward once your hearts have made up their minds.

This is where I'll pause the reading for Tumblr. If this pile has been resonating with you so far, the second half continues on Patreon, where we dive deeper into your reading. I'd love to have you there if you'd like to keep reading. 🤍

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Love, Infinity :)

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