Baroness Von Ünderboob

Doms can be needy for attention too.

Doms can ask for reassurance too.

Doms can be clingy too.

Doms can be not in the mood too.

Doms can get jealous and insecure too.

Passion and desire and shame and sadness don’t signal that you have to change everything immediately, though. These are sensations that don’t require solutions. Your primary job, in the face of renewed lust for life, is to tolerate the shame of joy.

Because embarrassment is sometimes just a sign that you’ve never lived out in the open before, you’ve never cared more about a feeling than you care about how you’re coming across, you’ve never prioritized happiness over control.

This is why it’s good to take risks that might embarrass you regularly. Because every time you dare to embarrass yourself for the sake of who you are, you’re teaching your body to prioritize joy. You’re teaching yourself to let go of seeming better than the things you love. You’re showing yourself how to feel where you are — to soak in the cool fall air, to breathe in the moon, to love every lopsided moment of your glorious, flawed life.

✨I really want to get back to doing pose ref-- to aid in being able to dedicate time to that I'm selling a mega pack of the entire Fat Photo Ref Archive for pay what you want (suggestion of $25)! ✨

There's over 1,000 images and I sorted them all for you!!

It's Mother's Day.

If you've ever called me mother, mom, mommy, ma, mama, I excpect a happy mother's day message before midnight.