25/Midwest/Sugar

Monthly reminder that if you are a sex worker and want to participate in a secret Santa with other sex workers this Christmas (2017) FOLLOW THIS BLOG!

I’ll start talking about rules and organization in September, so keep an eye out.

I’ll also be making a Twitter account where I’ll make polls about how we wanna do this, so keep an eye out for that as well.

All sex workers are welcome, whether you’re a cam girl, fssw, stripper, pro domme, porn actress/actor, sugar baby, whatever.

Post your ad.

Are you a older, successful man? Successful yet lonely every night? Can’t find a woman to spend the special moments with? If you are interested in providing for a woman that’s worth it, then please take a chance and I promise it’s worth the wait. I would like to see someone that’s serious about creating and capturing special memories.

After you have posted, you will play the waiting game.

Then, you get a reply.

Don’t know how to respond? Use this:

I hope all is well with you and thank you for answering my ad. What made you respond to this particular post if you don’t mind me asking? Before I send a photo, I would like to know the type of woman you are into when it comes to nationality as attraction plays a huge role and the last thing I want to do is to waste your time as your time is valuable.

After he responds and if it sounds promising, reply with your photos stating this:

Attached are some photos, I hope that I meet the criteria that you are seeking.

If he asked if you have done an arrangement before, tell him this:

I have done an arrangement like this before and I prefer an arrangement that’s considered “per meet.” I feel as if it’s comfortable for both parties. I am accustomed to _____ per meet.

Please let me know your thoughts as I am awaiting your response. Thank you.

I would like to have either lunch or dinner with you so we can have a conversation face-to-face. What does your schedule entail for this week?

If you are seeking an allowance, simple tell him this:

I have done an arrangement before and I am seeking a monthly allowance. Are you opposed to what I am seeking? I am awaiting for your response.

Always meet at a public place. If you are unsure, ask him this:

Do you have a favorite restaurant in the city?

Yes, he may be nice. Or cute. Or intelligent. But if you’re not enhancing my life or giving me what I desire…there are no spots available for you.

This is how you get “caught up”. This is how you end up with “what ifs” or “what could’ve beens”.

When it comes to men you can never stop a man from cheating. Some sugars are against dating a married man, others aren’t. Of which both sides I understand. Here I had my best friend’s HUSBAND message me with the means to hook up. Men have no shame and no remorse. If you don’t take his money someone else will. Understand the moral issue but to me it’s fair game. Please choose your husbands carefully or better yet, sugar on! This married business has become less and less for me.