Putting others on a pedestal, I did this for a long time; I didn't know the effects that it would have on me in many negative ways. It's good to see others how beautiful and amazing they are, like wow! But in that way we kind of neglected to see ourselves also, that we took ourselves to be beautiful, amazing, and so great, because it's true what you see is what or who you are. You know when they say,You are what you see? Yes, because you are all that and more, and sometimes you hate what you see or dislike, so maybe what you hate is something that is missing in you, lacking, or maybe you just have things you need to work on or heal. We all do; only some of us carry more than others. So while you're admiring and loving others, putting them on a pedestal because you think they are so great, don't leave yourself out. I did, and it left me disempowered, and nobody should have to. When you neglect yourself, you dim your light. It is a disservice to yourself, your spirit, and your soul, and it is a crime in the spirit world. We are all here to learn to love ourselves, be kind to yourselves. love yourselves a little bit more.