see, you've gotten pretty vocally transphobic and misogynistic in some spots online, and most of the time this comes from adults who know what they're doing and have years of experience in online spaces, but you're 16, so i'll give you the benefit of the doubt just once.
you need to reevaluate the things you are saying and the spaces you're in.
4tran is an alt-right gathering space made up of predominantly freshly out of the closet trans women who were neofascists before they came out. many of them are still racist, classist, xenophobic and misogynistic, and believe that being trans makes them exempt from accountability from their biases. the people on this website who espouse their beliefs often times take advice without scrutiny from people who often times gleefully expose age-inappropriate content to minors or encourage minors to be separated from the safe adults in their lives.
transmasc and nonbinary people do face discrimination, and far more disproportionately than transfem people in this community like to believe. they are subject to disinformation campaigns (claiming that enbies aren't real and that transmasc folks are "lost and confused girls being groomed into the trans agenda") and said campaigns are used as the backbone of hrt bans. they are stripped of reproductive health rights, correctively assaulted (and assaulted in general) at a much more staggeringly high rate than trans women (~60%, or 2/3, of tmasc individuals have a reported survived assault) and any legislature aimed at "women" (cis women) affects transmasc individuals unable to get paperwork to change their sex marker - and due to medical misogyny and controlled testosterone, that's leagues more difficult than it would seem.
fascists want you to believe that you and your transmasc brothers are enemies, so you will do their work for them. when you spread this rhetoric you are a tool for fascism meant to destroy the trans community from the inside out. the older members of the community who are focused on our survival have no patience or room left for this kind of behavior. it will get you isolated for the safety of the larger whole, left with only the people who encourage this rhetoric to the notable harm of their own community.
please don't do this to yourself.
omfg why are all my critics always like this.
you don't get to word this as some patronizing internet wellness check and then drop all those radical anti-trans takes. screw off and take your faux-pity and transmisogyny elsewhere. and for the love of god don't treat me like i can't handle myself just because i'm a 4tranner.
i would have preferred it if you just called me hitler.