Tauradonna was never really a thing
There are a lot of comparisons out there of Adam being the abusive ex-boyfriend kind of character even made by crwby but I donât think Adam and Blake were ever really in that kind of relationship.
I donât think Adam was every really in love with Blake and Blake wasnât ever really in love with Adam. I think Adam used her as a crutch to deal with his crippling Inferiority Superiority complex and Blake likewise âusedâ him as an object of worship and not an actual person. That isnât to say Adam isnât crazy or  abusive, itâs the love/boyfriend-girlfriend part Iâm questioning form both sides.
Adam insecurity is obvious in so many ways but the most obvious is his brand. Adam is never seen without covering it. Not in private or with people he trusts, never. Even when he took off his mask in the forest he immediately covers it with a black blindfold and continues on that way as heâs all alone, following team rwby through the wilderness and probably only encounters Grimm. His entire character song is Adam convincing others and himself heâs the âwarriorâ they need to lead them to salvation, that heâs their champion. His entire character in v4 and 5 is about power, control and how he falls apart when he has neither.
Adam is the only villain who has literally no one close to him, even Roman had Neo, Emerals and Mercury have each other and arguably, Cinder. Salem has her faction, even fucking Jacques has his son. Adam has no one, only in his character short is his relationship with Sienna truly revealed but even there, itâs snippets and itâs clear that Sienna is kind of manipulating him into turning out the way she wants him to. (Although no any of the other examples arenât exactly healthy, they have a lot more emphasis relative to their respective screen times). Before or after thereâs no one shown to be particularly close to him at all.
Characters with Inferiority Superiority complex and very little people close to them will often put others down to make themselves feel better, Blake referrences this when she says âhe was making her feel smallâ.
âBut!â you say âHe called her my darling and my loveâ. Yes, he did and he also uttered the most over the top lines possible for an abusive ex. I believe adam knew Blake was in love with him (or something like that as Iâll get to) and was using that against her, indeed to break her mentally. But I donât think Adam ever truly loved Blake, he needed the stability and worship she brought for his crippling insecurities and just as crippling ego.
Yang says something along the lines of âthe person you were pretending to be.â but I donât really think Adam was consiously always trying to pretend to be something just for Blake. I think his descent into the person he is/was today was slow as the character short obviously tried to show. Adam started out as the person Blake saw, he just fell from grace. And Blake idolised him, Nevemore uses the word âinfatuatedâ and Blake herself says she was blind to his faults, saw him as justice at first but slowly started to see him âfor who he truly wasâ. Adam started out as justice and slowly descended into âspiteâ. Blake just didnât really want to see that at first, she was too busy propping him up onto a pedestral of the saviour. She didnât make promises to the man âAdam was pretending to beâ she was making them to who Adam used to be and to the person she had a hero complex about.Â
In that sense, I donât think Blake ever really loved Adam, but rather the person she wanted him to be in the same way Adam doesnât love Blake now, but clings to his version of her. And it was never real love to begin with but more of a very unhealthy co-dependency.Â
What you should not take out of this:â Itâs all Blakeâs fault, she should have known better and not lead him on!â or âBlake should have stayed with Adam to make him a better personâ or âAdam is actually blameless in this and his past excuse all his actionsâ. You should take this as: Adam was a very broken person before Blake met him, he still is, and they had a very unhealthy relationship where they both used each other and Blake saw this and got out but Adam never did or didnât care and didnât try to do betterâ Also Blake was years younger when this happened and Adam should have been better but he wasnât and part of the reason why he wasnât, is his past.
















