#viol3tlavender

"I'll start tomorrow"

"This time I'm gonna be disciplined"

"i'm gonna do it for real this time".

These are a few examples of how people fall back into the old patterns. You keep on saying to yourself that you have all the time in the world and that you'll do it tomorrow. You say it for a week, then a month and then years pass by and you are still at the same place where you started from. You are angry and frustrated and lose all the motivation. You take a break from the law –>You come back–> you overconsume again–> the cycle continues. You look for an epiphany or a post that finally makes it click for you but you forget that you already know what is there to be known to change your life. You are searching for answers because the world has trained you to think that you cannot get anything without working hard and all you do is keep searching because you refuse to allow yourself to feel pleasure. You think there must be a hard way of getting the things you want. You keep looking for that hard way and it's been years already. What I'm here to tell you is all you need to do is DECIDE and DECIDE NOW that you have it. Have the audacity to claim things as yours because they are yours just because you said it. Stop waiting. Stop searching. Stop asking. Give yourself permission to live your dream life. Stop over consuming info. Every other post is saying the same thing worded differently. It's your responsibility to give yourself the things you desire. NOW is the moment to decide if you want it or not. And If you want it, you know what to do!

Circumstances

We don't know each other

I am not his physical type

He doesn't know about me

How could we meet if we don't have friends in common?

And the 3d, wow I don't know what to do because I really like him too much. Thanks for the advice dear

hey tulip 🌷

CIRCUMSTANCES DON'T MATTER AT ALL!!! PEOPLE HAVE MANIFESTED DESPITE THEIR NEGATIVE CIRCUMSTANCES BECAUSE CIRCUMSTANCES DO NOT MATTER!!!!

It doesn't matter what your circumstances are, it doesn't matter how impossible it seems, it doesn't matter what anyone else says. What matters is that you have faith in the law and that you are persistent in your assumptions. You don't need to know the "HOW". All you need to do is decide and persist. Decide that you are in a relationship with him. Decide that he loves you. Decide that you are his type.

You can affirm/visualize or do any other method it doesn't matter. You just need to form an assumption since it's the law of assumption. To form an assumption, you need to revisit your desired state/thoughts again and again and even if opposite thoughts arise, you need to persist in your assumptions. That's all you gotta do. Just affirm and persist.

The 3d is not separate from you. What you believe in your mind will show up in the 3d. So you need not worry about the 3d too. Circumstances can change anytime. Just persist in your assumptions regardless of what u see outside.

Whenever a doubt arises, go back to the basics– DECIDE/AFFIRM and PERSIST🤸🥇

xoxo,

hey tulip🌷

(sorry for late reply I'm not active here much.)

I can completely understand that it gets frustrating seeing the same old circumstances but understand that it's all in your hands. Your subconscious doesn't have eyes and u need to use that to your advantage. Choose a thought/state and come back to it again and again. That's the only way to manifest. You can do 99 techniques but doing those methods is not what's gonna get u your manifestation. When your mind believes something as a fact, it will reflect that in the 3d. So, you need to change your mind and thoughts to see what you want in the 3d and in doing so you can use any method but at the end of the day, the thing that matters is that your mind believes it as true.

Your problem is that you are searching for answers in the 3d without changing your internal dialogue. If you really changed your thoughts, you wouldn't look for results in the 3d and you will know that you already have it. You saying that you still don't have it is what's gonna reflect in the 3d and you saying that YOU HAVE IT - it will also reflect in your 3d. So choose what you want.

babe, listen I am gonna hold your hand when I say this – I know it can get really tiring seeing your circumstances and looking for answers but at the end of the day, only you can save yourself.

Whenever you feel low or start to doubt, go back to the basics always!! Decide and persist.

You don't need to do a whole lotta methods. I'll suggest robotic affirming(choose an affirmation and loop it and really saturate your mind with the idea that you have it already) since I use that a lot when I'm desperate for changes in the 3d.

Sending best wishes and love! I know you can do this and I know you will do this. I believe in you. You'll be at a better place - just trust yourself and repeat your affs. <3

xoxo,

hey tulip🌷

you can manifest to be the crush of all the most handsome guys even if you're not the so-called standard of beauty because this is law of assumption– that means u can do whatever u want. you are saying that the 3d does not move that means u want the 3d to change without changing your 4d(your thoughts). You need to understand that whatever is present in this world is a result of your imagination and therefore, for anything to exist in the 3d it must first exist in the 4d (your mind).

You turn inwards and tell yourself everyday that you are the crush of every handsome man and when that idea is saturated/ingrained in your mind, the 3d will automatically reflect that. So, it's easy because all you need to do is change your thoughts/state and persist in that state/thoughts!!

You don't need to know the "HOW", your manifestation can unfold in any way you want and this is not a process– IT IS INSTANT! JUST CHANGE YOUR INTERNAL DIALOGUE AND 3D WILL FOLLOW.

And everything is possible. If it weren't, you wouldn't be able to see it in your mind. So dw, just decide what you and persist in the fact that it's already yours and you'll see the 3d shift in front of your eyes no matter how impossible it seems.

xoxo,

First of all, I want to say that I love your blog. Now, I'm writing to you because I'm looking for some advice about something that's been happening to me. Honestly, I’m not sure what I want in life. Sometimes I feel like I want things, like working and buying a car, but at the same time, I believe I can get it through the Law of Attraction (without working, just manifesting it). This is causing me a lot of confusion, and as the days go by, I still don’t know what I really want.

My question is: how did you choose what you wanted in life? How did you make important decisions, like what to do with people you didn’t get along with? Did you improve your relationship with them, or did you just decide not to do anything about it?

hey tulip 🌷

I'm doing good thanks :) hru??

I just answered a similar ask a few mins ago. You can check that also.

So, i also face this challenge sometimes and what I do is that I manifest that I have clarity about my desires. Another thing you can do is flip a coin to decide lol. And if two or more desires can co- exist , then I manifest all of them. I am a person who wants to experience a lot of things so what i do is that I choose one reality as my base reality and then when I want to experience smth different or like a different life I script about it and then I shift realities for sometime for a change lmao.

e.g. - i have my base reality as the reality in which I am a college student and when I want change, i shift to a reality where I am living in another country, or a reality in which I'm a singer or an actor, etc.

also, for things like relationships - it depends if I want to stay in that relationship. in some relationships, I did manifest getting along and in some others I completely manifested them out of my life. I think it depends on you because you are the one who knows what you want in your life. So do whatever you want.

I hope that helps :)🩵🩷

Xoxo,