you know it just feels really bad to have a disabled person under your roof :((( its just kind of a bummer, makes me feel like its my fault that they're disabled :((((( so :) I'm going to do something about it :))) I'm going to force them to do certain activities and be more productive :D it doesn't matter that they say they can't do it I'm literally helping them push through it :DDD and I mean if they had any problems with living with me they could totally just get up and leave whenever there is totally nothing stopping them from just leaving so clearly I am allowed to do everything that I do, also I am going to scream at them and be generally intimidating, I am such a good parent