In life, there are two choices: to move forward or to stagnate. If you want to move forward, you have to turn your back from the past and face the present and the future with your eyes wide open. You do not leave your foot stuck in the past. If you do, you are immobilized and your failures will hold your back. You are left to cope with âwhat ifsâ âshould havesâ and a pile of regrets.o Nothing changes when you feel this way; you start to believe that nothing will change.
If you sincerely want to change, you drop the anger, the pain, the dissapointments and the sad experiences behind you. It is hard to live in the past. It is difficult to forgive and forget the people who may have hurt you, but you jave to do it for your own peace of mind. If you want to be free, you mentally close the door of the past firmly behind you and open another door to freedom.
When you leave your past behind you, you donât carry over to your present life a mental chart of the things or actions other people did to you. You do not spend three hours a day wringing your hands and trying to understand why the unfortunate incident happened. You do not moan over the unfair judgement passed on to you. What you should do, if you want to get positively even, is to make your life so successful that your enemies will wonder how you recovered so fast! As one writer says, âLiving well is the best revenge.â
Our life is determined by the choices we make. We make or break lives. Sometimes we come unscathed. Usually, we donât. Now, it is up to us to mend our torn selves and put them back to pieces. Only then can we say that we are free from the negative misleading past. (Source: Reflection Journal, vol. 1, 2000)
Oh di ba? Ang sipag ko, natype ko pa to huehuehue galing yan sa book namin sa values eh, tutal tinatamad naman ako magreview at wala akong mapost, sinipag tuloy akong itype to mehehehe saka nakakainspire kasi to. Hugot motivation awhooooooo!!! Credits pala :)))))
