yet, some peeps are sayin' that Uhura is wrong for him b/c she couldn't make him emotionally compromised but Kirk did. Yeah, it's so bad that we didn't see Spock trying to strangle her too, that's clearly what real soulmates do.
I haven't run across this one but I believe you when you tell me it's out there.
What's funny about these arguments to me is that they are canonically incorrect. I mean, technically you can ~interpret~ a source text however you like, but. Sorry haters: Spock kissed Uhura back in the turbolift. He clutched her close to him. When she ended their last kiss, he leaned after her. Nobody was getting taken advantage of.
And as far as ~emotional compromise~ goes... It took Uhura like two seconds in the turbolift to get Spock to WILLINGLY show her -- albeit briefly -- the degree to which he was affected by shock and grief. She accomplished in far less time with affection, sympathy and gentleness what Jim had to resort to taunting Spock about his dead mother to do. Spock's moment with Uhura was certainly less dramatic and violent than his moment with Kirk, and it didn't lose him his captaincy. But if all we're talking about is the ability to get through to Spock, Uhura's got that in spades.
I also just find that defense a completely bizarre one. Yes, Kirk's ability to make Spock murderously angry by saying he didn't love his mom after she and six billion of Spock's people, along with his entire planet, were sucked into a black hole, is... a sign of... compatibility? There are both emotional and logical believable reasons to ship STXI Kirk/Spock, even though I don't care about them 97% of the time. This? Is not one of them.















