#tupperbox

Ratings are in relevance of how useful they are in relation for system use.

Ones we do indeed recommend:

Ampersand (apparently it's offline and from the goggle play store it has 500+ downloads.. we have tested it out and tell y'all about it in a separate post because this is actually beautiful) personal rating: ∞

Plural Kit (discord bot, has a nice-ish community around it. We use it and it's sorta confusing at first but that's fine) personal rating: ★★★★★

Ones we don't recommend:

Octocon (the creators are pedophiles and their server has MANY pedos. They have defended people who groom children many times and banned people who have spoken out on it) personal rating: ★★☆☆☆ (two stars are for the actual app and bot itself.)

do you have or want a DM server that allows you to proxy?

have you always wanted it to be reorganized and made to act like real dms?

and have you always wanted a way to customize exactly how that server responds and acts?

well look no further because i (Ari) have been developing a bot exactly for that!

just reply to this post if you want to beta test and such, and we can make either a server or ill just keep posting about it on here!

(and similar)

Like Simply Plural, Octocon, Ampersand, Pluralkit, Tupperbox, Antar, etc.

You are not required to input all your information into those programs/apps. You are not required to put all of your systems members into them either.

We only have maybe 5-7% of our system actually logged. And only about 0.5% of the information about our members is logged. Mind you we are polyfragmented.

It can be exhausting logging everyone. Putting everyone into the programs. Trying to keep track of everything.

It's ok not to proxy. It's ok not to log.

If you need to for clinical reasons, that's understandable.

But if it is causing undue stress- take a break. Don't worry about logging. Sometimes it's ok not to know who you are. And if you do know- it's ok not to log it. Not everything has to be logged.

Worrying about it, hyperfocusing on it, stressing over it- won't do you or your system any good. It could be worsening dissociation.

Be free from that. Don't log every once in a while. Don't proxy every once in a while. You aren't obligated to tell anyone.

You are valid either way~ ♡

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Florida (Alterhu)man

Florida (Alterhu)man is a Discord server for plural systems, therianthropes, otherkin, and other alterhumans who live in or near the southeastern USA. Some states in or near there are Alabama, Arkansas, Delaware, Florida, Georgia, Kentucky, Louisiana, Maryland, Mississippi, Missouri, North Carolina, South Carolina, Tennessee, Virginia, and West Virginia. Our gated lobby offers some protection for the privacy of who lives where. We have an online reference library of advice for safer meet-ups and other resources for keeping our communities healthy and informed.

As of this writing, our server has slightly more than a hundred members. It has been active since we opened more than a year ago in August 2024. We welcome plural systems of any origins and types: we're endogenic-safe, and we have PluralKit and Tupperbox. It's a safe space for LGBTQIA, people of color, and people with disabilities.

We don't allow aduIt content, but only aduIts may join this server because it's for finding local events and friends to meet, and we don’t want to encourage young ones to do that, for their safety.

Not replacing anyone‼️

I’m +18 looking for a +18 partner who’s pretty much active and willing to double up, doing the off campus show/books plot, I just bought the books and I’m really excited about it!💗

Pairings: Hannah wells (Me) or my OC x Garrett Graham (you)

My oc x Beau maxwell (still working on my oc so that’s postponed for now)

I can pretty much do any of the boys for you!☁️

I love smut, kinks, sending TikTok’s, having a separate tupper box thread on discord for phone texts, social media’s, on telegram we can do that too!

WE CAN FANGIRL TOGETHER CAUSE IM SUCH A HUGE FANGIRL

I’m pretty much active, back to back replies, stuff like that when it comes to role playing, just this week I might be off on Sunday and Monday because Monday I’m celebrating my birthday a bit early with my boyfriend and Sunday I’d be finally graduating college! Then I’m all free for you!

I pretty much have no limits on my smut or use of language, I write up to 4 paragraphs but if we want to take it slow then I write +6 lines, I really love details and more stuff.

I love my rp partners and most of them are my friends, so I hope we get along pretty much! 💗

I love our oc to be friends (if we are not doing main characters of the show) so we can have joined plots cause I love it! I love the whole boys reacting together and interacting even our girls!

Feel free to PM me or like this and I will reach out to you!💋💋