futchmisia is being told that being futch is dressing “normally” with “normally” usually meaning casual but not necessarily androgynous (which many futches including myself dress by the way) but butch and femme are community roles and thus why being both is somehow controversial. doesn’t even account for the fact that these identities can be genders or tied to one’s gender, making this point transmultimisic and exorsexist as well.

I would very much appreciate debates about transmultiphobia/transmultimisia that don't only include man/woman bigender experiences. Because, yk, not all bigender people are man/woman, and not all multigender people are partially man and/or partially woman.