#transformable

Sometimes in life we find ourselves miserable and don’t really have a clue why. We make excuses for our misery, we say “ My body isn't the way I want it to be”. We say “ I want to stop eating fast food” , “ I hate my job” and “ this Relationship is draining”  and sometimes we also like to compile all our miseries together and say “ I just feel down” and “Oh its my anxiety is playing up”  - disregarding the awareness that something is worrying us, something us making us feel like this. 

Firstly stop making up excuses. You want to be better then do the work. Stop allowing yourself to 

be riddled with  this type of anxiety, preventing you to even explore the possibility that you could actually have and lead the life that you want. you got to put fear and anxiety in its place. otherwise you miss out. 

Make those miseries conscious. Your body isn't the way you want it to be? Accept the fact that you CAN change that. Its Transformable. Don’t get stuck in the purgatory of misery because 

MISERY LOVES COMPANY, and people will keep you there. Its contagious misery. Its hard for people to accept that things are transformable its easier for people to complain about their horrible relationships, weight, and job then actually doing the work to achieve something that matches their very own visions. So many of us fall guilty to this trap. People will tell you its impossible for you to have your ideal  family, or dream job. They will tell you this because they let there fear of change dictate how they live. But that is the beauty of transformation. Discarding things that no longer serve you so that you can experience the things you desire.

Everything is temporary and that sucks sometimes because occasionally you find yourself trying to hold on to something even when its not what you want and it feels heart breaking when its taken for you, because its not alined with your desire and in other ways its blessing to let go of things and shut the door.